I will try to make this as brief as I can...I had been dating someone for a total of 4 years before I decided to let go. After 2 1/2 years of dating, I became pregnant. We both went to the doctors to confirm it (seeing an ultrasound and there was a baby in my belly!!!) After we left, my "fiance" immediately TOLD me that we had to terminate the pregnancy because of financial reasons (though he and I both had jobs...oddly).
I begged and pleaded with him to change his mind but he wasnt having it, stating that it is not me, its just the "timing". With all the stress that I was going through, not to mention slight complications with the pregnancy...I miscarried. I stayed with him for another year or so, until I got the strength to walk away. I has been a couple of years now and he is calling me, begging and pleading for me to take him back (constantly apologizing for what he said and how he treated me while I was pregnant). I am in a positive relationship now and I was honest with my ex and told him that I am seeing a really great man.
I guess my question is...should I go back with my ex since we had such a long history? We had our hard times, as well as any other couple, but his mistreatment of me, the bad things he said to me and him being angry that I was pregnant was the cause for me to walk away. Do people change? Was his actions a mistake because he was scared or is he just a man who does not want any responsibility???? I am struggling with this decision because he really wants to start again, BUT I dont want to make a mistake in choosing the wrong man...Any help would be greatful (male comments are greatly welcome).