My fiance and I have been together for a little over 2 years and have been engaged since May of 2007. We have an 11 month old son, which we were trying to have. But our relationship was perfect, until I found out I was pregnant, and then it all seemed to go downhill. We started arguing a lot, and he seemed like he lost interest in me. He never wanted to take care of his son, and other things (like sleep and video games) always seem more important. I broke up with him on Halloween but we ended up getting back together after a month or two, because I thought he changed. When I moved back in everything was perfect again for about 2 weeks, then everything started to fall apart again. I work 2nd shift and he's currently unemployed collecting unemployment. I don't see why he can't get up with the baby in the morning and let me get a few more hours of sleep seeings how he has NOTHING to do all day. I have only Monday's off from work, and I want that to be family day, but he always plays his stupid video games, for the whole day and totally acts like I don't exist. When I mention him that I don't like this and that I want more family time and more help with the baby and the chores and more attention he says I'm being needy. I just don't know if its normal to feel like your relationship has just turned into a friendship, because he always tells me that this is what happens when your with someone so long?! I love him, but its turning into a more hate love relationship. I feel like I'm being taken for granted here..
Please can someone give me some type of advice?!