O.K. so bf and I go out for dinner and to attend a relationship seminar. In the past everytime we get together we enjoy each other and have a good time.
But something went awfully wrong last night. It started as we were driving to dinner. I was talking about our relationship and what I want. He has lead me to believe that I am all of these wonderful things and that I fulfill his most important emotional needs.
All of the sudden we are in disharmony. We never went to the relationship seminar rather sat at dinner and talked for hours about our relationship. The more we talked the worse things got between us.
The less he seemed to care and less important I felt to him. He said I was pushing him away and I felt that he was pushing me away. He acted like I had made up all of those great things he said about me and about our relationship as though I was crazy or something.
Why the shift? He offered me so much and now is offering me less. He thinks I have shifted. He thinks its me. He sees me as the one with the distorted thinking. It feels the other way around to me.
What is going on here? Everything seemed fine up to the moment I mention our relationship which I have done in the past without any problem.
Do I just pull back or end it here and now?