BF watches porn.

[CocoChanel]

Not it's not overruled in my book. Regardless. My last comment stands and I could care less what comes after it. It's my opinion.

[doppelgaenger]

Oh Carl. That is so pathetic. It really is. LOL! Most Women are capable of being satisfied by one. Men can't. That's why you're convinced that is normal to be that way. Just face it. Men are not strong in that department.

I am actually satisfied with my girlfriend and I want only her. In fact, I am head over heels for her!

[CocoChanel]

I am actually satisfied with my girlfriend and I want only her. In fact, I am head over heels for her!

And I give you 100% respect for that! You are one in a million I swear. Not many men can say that without something else on the side. So your girlfriend is sooooooo lucky!!

EDIT:
I guess I should have said Most Men instead of just Men in that post haha because not ALL Men are weak but Most Men are when it comes to visual stimulation.

[Lite]

Stay on topic. I only speaking of when it comes to pornography not on everything. And thanks for the compliment.

We know that men are more visually stimulated than men biologically, but men are pigs for looking at porn when it's perfectly ok for a woman to kick back and read a bodice ripper?

When I look at porn I think, "Oh, nice breasts." not "Oooh, I bet she shags like a mynx!"

I'm not reading things along the lines of, "Even though Evelyn knew it was forbidden to breach her husband's trust, she allowed Edward to thrust his purple headed warrior into her quivering mound of love pudding."

I'm sorry, but recent scientific studies have shown that women, not men, are more likely to engage in promiscuous behavior while in a committed relationship. In fact, they are biologically driven to do so.

[Vain]

I to was 100% satisfied physically in all my past relationships that I have been in. There is no "1 in a million" person who is satisfied, it is purely communication.

[lesa]

And I give you 100% respect for that! You are one in a million I swear. Not many men can say that without something else on the side. So your girlfriend is sooooooo lucky!!

EDIT:
I guess I should have said Most Men instead of just Men in that post haha because not ALL Men are weak but Most Men are when it comes to visual stimulation.

Your comments make it sound like you have a pathetic relationship with your significant other--one of those pessimistic women with low worth and settle for almost any man that is willing to be in some kind of relationship with her.

[Lite]

Your comments make it sound like you have a pathetic relationship with your significant other--one of those pessimistic women with low worth and settle for almost any man that is willing to be in some kind of relationship with her.

No, she has to repeatedly tell herself that she's dating the one man on the planet that isn't like every other wretched man on the planet.

[Aeradalia]

No, she has to repeatedly tell herself that she's dating the one man on the planet that isn't like every other wretched man on the planet.

What a scary thought... if you had the one man on the planet who was different from all the others... then you couldn't get any advice whatsoever --- because no one else would have any experience with his unique behavior. The entire relationship would have to be trial and error with no 'cheat sheets' via friends and other males.

I'd rather have a decent guy... even though he would be 'flawed' by nature... there would be lots of information available from others on the 'whys' of his behavior and the 'do's' and 'don'ts' I could ask about.

[carl1222]

And I give you 100% respect for that! You are one in a million I swear. Not many men can say that without something else on the side. So your girlfriend is sooooooo lucky!!

EDIT:
I guess I should have said Most Men instead of just Men in that post haha because not ALL Men are weak but Most Men are when it comes to visual stimulation.

OK, my last post in the thread lest you think I'm picking on you.

Why do you think that the basic difference between men and women is a weakness of men and a strength of women? It's a difference, no more, no less.

OK, granted that men are stimulated more visually than women ... everyone knows that ... so what? Does that really make men an inferior creature and women a superior one as you have suggested in previous posts on this thread?

Personally, I don't want a woman to be just like a man, nor a man to be just like a woman. The differences are the spice that makes it all so exciting.

Also, never forget that it's precisely the qualities of men you complain about that are the same qualities that get women all that attention!!!

Carl.

[CocoChanel]

OK, my last post in the thread lest you think I'm picking on you.

????

Why do you think that the basic difference between men and women is a weakness of men and a strength of women? It's a difference, no more, no less.

Only when it comes to visual stimulation.

OK, granted that men are stimulated more visually than women ... everyone knows that ... so what?

Exactly my point. This is the only point that I have been trying to make and everyone goes emo. Men are stimulated more visually than women. Only thing I added is that... they can't help it... and it's something most can't and won't overcome for the sake of a relationship because they are so convinced that it's normal. But there are some men who can do it!

No, she has to repeatedly tell herself that she's dating the one man on the planet that isn't like every other wretched man on the planet.

Then you must not read how much I complain about me and mine. I suggest you mind what you read from now on.

Your comments make it sound like you have a pathetic relationship with your significant other--one of those pessimistic women with low worth and settle for almost any man that is willing to be in some kind of relationship with her.

And all of this comes from my comments about men and pornography... a woman with low worth? When most of you women in this post say it's not disrespectful for a man to be visually stimulated by pornography even though it's to the point where he has to jack off and ejaculate? If I agreed with you that would make me just like you.

I to was 100% satisfied physically in all my past relationships that I have been in. There is no "1 in a million" person who is satisfied, it is purely communication.

Would you be happy if I made it 2 in a million? LOL.

We know that men are more visually stimulated than men biologically, but men are pigs for looking at porn when it's perfectly ok for a woman to kick back and read a bodice ripper?

Maybe you think it's okay... but I don't.

When I look at porn I think, "Oh, nice breasts." not "Oooh, I bet she shags like a mynx!"

Sure you do.

I'm sorry, but recent scientific studies have shown that women, not men, are more likely to engage in promiscuous behavior while in a committed relationship. In fact, they are biologically driven to do so.

I could care less. I was only speaking on visual stimulation.

[denfor25]

he just doing that because he has so higher sex drive then you for whatever reason (this shot being a part of that), this is natural, purely biological effect - things unused in human body strings and fall off , if he not doing that he might be facing impotency at later age; thing about what he doing as exercise, the same as workout - but then he is always in shape and ready for you! Some things in relationship are better stay untouched, do not ask him, do not chase him, do not offer watch together - if you insist he will start to hate you! Imagine him asking you details of what you do during your period, how would you like that? Give him some privacy!

[Aeradalia]

Cocochanel... if you want a partner that is less stimulated visually --- as this is a 'weakness' in your eyes -- then why not just give up on guys altogether and just go with females?

Because it sounds like you're trying to 'change' a man into resembling a female - personality/behavior-wise.

Men will try to be respectful of their partners to a certain degree... but you cannot ask them to change their fundamental natures on account of you. Asking a guy to fight being visually stimulated all of the time (unless by you) is like a guy asking a woman to never be moody (not even the tiniest bit) during her monthly cycle.

Either.... learn to accept the differences between men and women as just mere differences --- women are not better than men and vice versa. We're just different. Any gender debate will always end in a draw --- for every advantage you think a woman has over a man... there are just as many disadvantages she has in comparison. ..... Or...... see if you can hop the fence and change your sexuality as you're clearly not happy with being attracted to a 'real male.'

But to continue playing this game of 'women are better than men' is childish at best. Surely you're old enough to know by now how men are, why women are attracted to them, and how to get along with them... right?

[vashti]

Most Women are capable of being satisfied by one. Men can't. That's why you're convinced that is normal to be that way. Just face it. Men are not strong in that department.

Guys look at other women, it's an impulse... they really can't help it... .

When you think about it... you have to admit... this is all kind of silly to get worked up over...

I feel bad for this girl because she hasn't gotten it yet... Men are going to be men. It doesn't mean that what they are doing is right, but in order to save yourself you've gotta get over it.

Honestly, I don't understand why you guys are arguing about this. It looks to me as if you are esentially saying the same thing.

[CocoChanel]

Honestly, I don't understand why you guys are arguing about this. It looks to me as if you are esentially saying the same thing.

Thank you!!! We are saying the same thing! The only thing I added is that i see it as a weakness if you can't overcome it for someone you love.

[CocoChanel]

Cocochanel... if you want a partner that is less stimulated visually --- as this is a 'weakness' in your eyes -- then why not just give up on guys altogether and just go with females?

Because it sounds like you're trying to 'change' a man into resembling a female - personality/behavior-wise.

Men will try to be respectful of their partners to a certain degree... but you cannot ask them to change their fundamental natures on account of you. Asking a guy to fight being visually stimulated all of the time (unless by you) is like a guy asking a woman to never be moody (not even the tiniest bit) during her monthly cycle.

Either.... learn to accept the differences between men and women as just mere differences --- women are not better than men and vice versa. We're just different. Any gender debate will always end in a draw --- for every advantage you think a woman has over a man... there are just as many disadvantages she has in comparison. ..... Or...... see if you can hop the fence and change your sexuality as you're clearly not happy with being attracted to a 'real male.'

But to continue playing this game of 'women are better than men' is childish at best. Surely you're old enough to know by now how men are, why women are attracted to them, and how to get along with them... right?

LOL!! You've lost it.