I don't like porn

[CocoChanel]

Yeah right! That's why men won't stop watching it! They can't help themselves. Just face it. Men are not that brave. They will never stop watching porn because they are sex-lust junkies. That's one of the reasons why I don't bother telling a guy to stop watching it. They'll just sneak behind your back and do it. Or fantasize about some other hot woman. Something no woman can control.

Then when a woman complains about it... they say it's something wrong with her. HA! What's wrong is you sitting there pleasuring yourself by looking at naked women. Is that supposed to make your woman feel good about herself? I can understand how some women may feel about it and I understand how it can really effect a woman's ego and self esteem. I encourage the woman to toughen up and get over it.

[Aeradalia]

.... you are perfect in everyway.

... and even if you're not... you're getting laid! Your boyfriend loves you... he chooses to spend his time and affections with you. If that's not a confidence boost... then I don't know what is.

Be thankful for what you have... so you won't be missing what you had...

[lostbutfound4u]

Coco ... you go WAY too far! Men are curious, and moderate (non-addictive) porn satisfies their natural need for variety in a way that PROTECTS the relationship. Imagine if they fulfilled these fantasies with real live sex instead.

Men rarely say "Oh it does nothing for me, I prefer you baby" except as a defensive move. The basic disagreement (and there have been lots of threads on this topic) is that women often believe that the models in the movie are the kind of girls their boyfriends really want to be with. SO NOT TRUE!

I'll agree with you that some men are addicted to the stuff ... but not nearly as many as you think.

Carl.

I agree. If men utilize porn, libido will decline.

[CocoChanel]

Oh and as far as non addictive porn being useful the sex life of the relationship... read a sex book about positions and if you need a live demonstration call up your girlfriend. Porn as a Sex Guide is just another excuse to watch it.

[Aeradalia]

But the pictures don't move!

... and neither do they made those wonderfully delightful sounds...

[CocoChanel]

LOL But your significant other can make noises!!!!

[Aeradalia]

LOL But your significant other can make noises!!!!

My SO isn't threatened by porn... and neither am I... it's moderated, does not dominate, and can be used to supplement our sex lives (and just as easily not be used at all).

So if it is used in moderation, I see no reason to remove it completely from either of our lives... especially on the basis that we should be enough for each other. It's not a matter of him not being enough... it's more of a way to explore with him something new... or I'm alone and really, really want to get to sleep.

And yes... he does make some very delicious noises when I press the right buttons..

[carl1222]

I always felt horrible and I felt horrible for making him stop watching it, but oh well, my feelings come before, he was never mean about it though.

Why do your feelings always come first?

All in all, guys are gross and you won't find one guy who never watches porn.

Oh really?? And I suppose it was all the "gross guys" who made it possible for the Energizer Rabbit to buy his new Bentley!

Carl.

[Aeradalia]

Oh really?? And I suppose it was all the "gross guys" who made it possible for the Energizer Rabbit to buy his new Bentley!

Carl.

I almost died laughing on that one...