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**sinner saint** · 19-02-09, 07:27 AM

OK.... Please someone help me out here...

My boyfriend and i have been dating for about a year now he is 25 and i am 21...it has always been apparent that i have had a higher sex drive than him i would love to have sex with him all the time and he just does not seem as horny as me. So i have come to grips with this fact but i still believe that for a healthy reationship you need to have sex at least 2 or 3 times a week...(although i would like it 4 or 5 times) Any way i have catered to the fact that he told me he thinks that is too much and calls me a sex acholic (as a joke)!!
Well just today i discover on our computer that he has a membership to a porn site and has logged in everynight this week to look at porn and ****ing wack off!!!!! I am very upset and hurt by this because we have only been having sex once a week sometimes even once every two weeks!!!!
What is wrong with this picture...and i dont mean to be concieted but i think i am attractive and i am wondering why he wont sleep with me more....i have even offered in the past to watch a porno with him for kinky sex and he claimed that he didnt like to watch porn!!!....LIES... he waits till i go to bead and jacks off! What should i feel about this because i dont think he finds me attractive anymore...
someone help me shed some light on this situation!!!!

**Indignant** · 19-02-09, 07:37 AM

you've come to the wrong place. we enjoy jacking off here as well.

**TheGreek** · 19-02-09, 07:37 AM

You need to talk to him, not us. I say confront him.

**Indignant** · 19-02-09, 07:38 AM

Originally Posted by TheGreek

You need to talk to him, not us. I say confront him.

oh come on Greek, don't give the wrong advice here. she has no right to tell him what to do with his body.

**TheGreek** · 19-02-09, 07:45 AM

Umm, I didn't say that she should tell him what to do with his body. I said confront him, which implies to question him and ask him what the deal is. Obviously, she wants to get some and he's not providing that, yet still getting his own rocks off. I'd say that's not fair. If he's jacking off, and giving it to her, I don't see a problem. But when he's leaving her out to dry, but beating his meat, then I see a problem.

**Aeradalia** · 19-02-09, 08:17 AM

How often do you remind him that you want sex? Maybe he feels too pressured? Sex is more fun when it's a little unpredictable and 'just happens'...

How often does he grab you up unexpectedly and just goes at it?

**Mish** · 19-02-09, 09:06 AM

Come on sinner saint, masturbation is very different from sex and the two may not need to correlate. It's quite possible for a person to masturbate once a day, but only want sex once a week. There is nothing wrong with that picture. The two are very different.

**BigQid** · 19-02-09, 10:27 AM

What type of guy has a girl that wants it more than he does? It would be one thing if she wanted it 5 times a day, but 5 times a week seems very doable. If I have a girl and she wants to get done, I do her. I feel like there is something at least a little wrong in this situation. So talk to him and figure out what's what.

**sinner saint** · 19-02-09, 12:40 PM

Originally Posted by Aeradalia

How often do you remind him that you want sex? Maybe he feels too pressured? Sex is more fun when it's a little unpredictable and 'just happens'...

How often does he grab you up unexpectedly and just goes at it?

thats just the issue...i dont pressure him about it just sometimes in bed i will roll over and try to be sweet and let him know i want it and he just kisses me back and it never goes any farther..it is a rare occasion that he grabs me up and goes at it..he is not that confident in himself....But when we do have sex it is amazing!! wtf!!

**TheGreek** · 19-02-09, 12:53 PM

Originally Posted by sinner saint

But when we do have sex it is amazing!! wtf!!

Do you tell him that he's "amazing?"

**doppelgaenger** · 19-02-09, 01:12 PM

What kind of porn was it? He wasn't watching girl on goat action was he? What about cornhole probing? Man on man action?

**BigQid** · 19-02-09, 01:14 PM

do you say that you want it or do you just roll over and kiss him? I used to have a problem where I would start in on my girl, and sometimes she would push my hands away, but at the end of the week she would say that we hadn't been having sex as much. I would say, I try to start but you stop me, so I figured you weren't in the mood, and she would say that she just didn't want to be touched like that then or that I should not have been so easily deterred. Maybe that is the problem.

**Kementari** · 19-02-09, 10:15 PM

Nothing will be solved unless you talk to him. You don't have to make a big deal out of it, just next time you kiss him in bed and you perceive that he rejects you, just say "I've noticed you seem to want sex less recently, is anything the matter? I've been feeling a bit upset and I'd like to talk about it". No big deal, just talk to him. We could suggest a thousand reasons on here, but you'll never know unless you talk to him. And maybe you should try masturbating more too, if your sex drive is so much higher than his.

**Indignant** · 20-02-09, 12:51 AM

what about not being sweet? jump into bed and go down on him

**BigQid** · 20-02-09, 03:45 AM

I'm with indignant. If that don't work nothing will.

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