lol no, it just sounds like this woman is on the brink
lol no, it just sounds like this woman is on the brink
Oh, she'll be fine. She's like Scarlett O'Hara. She might look all broken down right now, but as soon as she realizes Rhett isn't coming back, she'll stand up and take care of herself. She seems to be good at going for what she wants, damn the consequences.
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Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh
its unfortunate what happened, but you must understand it from his point of view and not many could live with a constant reminder of being cheated upon
I've seen kids who go through divorces, and the implications that go along with it. This..This is gonna be a bad one =[
Life is not the amount of breaths you take, it's the moments that take your breath away.
Amazing what some people will do when they feel lonely and unappreciated... rather than confront their partner with their concerns... they look elsewhere for even more complicated problems. I fail to see the logic in this... I pity the child born into this mess.
Would adoption be a viable option? It would get the child as far away from this mess as possible...
"The weakest soul, knowing its own weakness, and believing this truth that strength can only be developed by effort and practice, will, thus believing, at once begin to exert itself, and, adding effort to effort, patience to patience, and strength to strength, will never cease to develop, and will at last grow divinely strong."
- James Allen
I have a hard time feeling bad for cheaters. You knew what you were doing, you chose to do it WITHOUT protection, and then have the gall to ask your husband to raise another man's child? I'm sorry, I can't feel pity for you.
What I feel for is the children. Especially that child that going to grow up without a Dad and always have that stigma surrounding them of being the reason the whole family got blown apart. It's not their fault, but some people will feel that way.
Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever. - Mohandas Gandhi
Biological just means you have genetic relations to the child... it is no guarantee that you are the best possible option for the child's future. Anyone can have children - anyone - including those who would make for the worst parents.
So yes... to give the child up to those who could provide a far better future is something to consider when you have a child in a situation such as this.
It is about the child's best interests... isn't it?
"The weakest soul, knowing its own weakness, and believing this truth that strength can only be developed by effort and practice, will, thus believing, at once begin to exert itself, and, adding effort to effort, patience to patience, and strength to strength, will never cease to develop, and will at last grow divinely strong."
- James Allen
I would probably kill the kid and her for the aggravation they have caused me or request all the resources I have thus far invested into the child since than. If this was a long time and I raised the kid.
and no, I am not kidding. I'm not into this shit for lovey dovey feelings, I want my genes to pass on.
Last edited by Only-virgins; 06-02-09 at 04:16 PM.
"Why are you an atheist?"
"because I paid attention in science class."
I feel bad for her, yes. She will have a lot of guilt for destroying her child's family, assuming she is a decent person. I feel even worse for the kids.
I might consider the idea of adopting out this baby if the other child is young enough to not remember that mom was pregnant. That poor baby deserves to have a stable home with 2 parents that love him.
Last edited by vashti; 07-02-09 at 05:52 AM.
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
lol holy shit this thread is funny.
baby ya hustle. but me i hustle harder.
"The weakest soul, knowing its own weakness, and believing this truth that strength can only be developed by effort and practice, will, thus believing, at once begin to exert itself, and, adding effort to effort, patience to patience, and strength to strength, will never cease to develop, and will at last grow divinely strong."
- James Allen