Had an affair, got pregnant!

[Only-virgins]

Poor children. It's a shame they are the ones who truly have to pay for the selfish mistakes of their parents.

Parent, not plural in this case.

[IndiReloaded]

See people, to me this is a happy ending. This is what I call a cheerful story. It brings light to my day. Not because she suffer, but because it is what it is meant to be.

And CUE the '(un)happiness' thread. Or buddha (life is suffering).

[Lite]

And CUE the '(un)happiness' thread. Or buddha (life is suffering).

The Dread Pirate Roberts thread? "Life is pain your highness. Anyone who tells you differently is selling something."

[Everlovin]

If the parents aren't happy together then the kids will only suffer more if they stay together.

One way to solve a problem is by removing someone who is causing it. In this case, the couple is separated.

And yes OV, you should DNA test your kids. Because your woman is going to cheat on you a lot.

[Mish]

And yes OV, you should DNA test your kids. Because your woman is going to cheat on you a lot.

Everlovin is speaking from experience

[Lite]

Everlovin is speaking from experience

The kind of experience that comes from not knowing who your daddy is maybe.

[Only-virgins]

Because your woman is going to cheat on you a lot.

Haha you say this like it is fact. Once is enough and she won't be my woman anymore.

[1averagejoe]

I haven't talked with this man since, he wants nothing to do with it. Which is fine with me, I really wanted my husband to take over and adopt. He is n't willing to and in fact has left me.

I'm surprised you actually had the nerve to ask this...

He doesn't deserve someone that's going to stab him in the back like you did. Plus, he won't be able to trust you anymore. He doesn't have to raise this other mans child. He should raise and be there for his child. He should not be with you anymore because it will more than likely only cause problems and be more harmful to the children.

It's sad that in the end, the one that really suffers is the children. I've seen it happen with peers before, they go astray, they have problems in school, relationships, friends, and can be troubled. It's really a shame.

I remember twins (brother and sister) in my high school class. They both always had problems with getting in trouble, relationship problems, drama, and all around different. I remember talking with the brother and it turns out the father cheated on the wife and he hated him because of it. He refused to talk to him, the mother was an alcoholic and I actually heard just recently has liver cancer.

[Illusional]

hrmm... honestly if this happened to me, i would take my daughter and probably not make my wife pay child support since another one is coming.

raverboy

[Gigabitch]

I'm also 40, Calla, and I have to say, I don't have a whole lot of sympathy for you. I'm well-qualified to tell you that you're old enough to know how to use contraception.

Yes, the cheating is objectionable to me, and your expectations of your husband are ridiculous, but the part I have the biggest problem with is the fact that you had unprotected sex with this guy.

What were you thinking, you ****ing ninny? You're lucky the only thing you got was sperm poisoning.

[Junket]

You're lucky the only thing you got was sperm poisoning.

Sperm poisoning?

HAHAHAHAHAHA!

I love it.

[Charlie Boy II]

I actually give the woman props for coming clean with her husband. She would not have been the first woman to keep quiet and let her husband raise another guy's kid.

[carl1222]

Don't feel bad hun. It wasn't an affair anyways...you weren't married to the other guy.

Unless there is a ring on your finger, your not off the market.

What a horrific outlook! When you commit to an exclusive relationship, being with someone else is cheating. By your logic, it's OK to have sex with another man on your wedding day just as long as you haven't walked down the aisle yet! Booooo.

Carl.

[DoesntMatter]

lol, you're all being so fuccking mean. Am I the only one who feels bad for this person?

[Gigabitch]

lol, you're all being so fuccking mean. Am I the only one who feels bad for this person?

You just feel bad for her because you think nobody should be punished for having sex with younger men.