touching.

[misombra]

so lately there have been some awkward moments where men just touch me. a man today (i see him once a month or so) at work gave me this long pat on my back.

then the other day a friend went up behind me and rubbed his hand down my neck.

since when is it okay to do that?

[Lite]

so lately there have been some awkward moments where men just touch me. a man today (i see him once a month or so) at work gave me this long pat on my back.

then the other day a friend went up behind me and rubbed his hand down my neck.

since when is it okay to do that?

Maybe you looked like you needed some human contact. or they were trying to feel if you were wearing a bra or not.

[vashti]

I don't mind people I am friendly with touching me, but I hate when strangers or acquaintances do it. I also hate when touchy-feely types want to do one of those big group hug-fests. It's so artificial.

I think you can solve your problem by groping these people's testicles when they touch you.

[tooxshort]

Irresistible ...

[Gribble]

I do not like being touched and I do not like people getting within 4-5 feet of me. It's all I can do not to flinch when someone pats me on the back.

[Illusional]

I do not like being touched and I do not like people getting within 4-5 feet of me. It's all I can do not to flinch when someone pats me on the back.

in general, that's because you're a little pet. you're not supposed to do anything, but be obedient.

raverboy

[lovesjoyajm]

I do not like being touched and I do not like people getting within 4-5 feet of me. It's all I can do not to flinch when someone pats me on the back.

Hahah I was talking with friends the other day about whether we like to be physical with their friends - hugging, spooning, stuff like that - and my flatmate says: no touching. He thinks touching and cuddling are just something you have to put up with when you're dating someone.

It's so funny because now whenever we watch a movie or something one of us will make a joke like "don't worry, I'm sitting on THIS end of the couch" or "let's cuddle.... oh wait, you hate human contact."

But yeah, I don't like anything more than a friendly hug or brief touch on the arm unless it's family or my best friend. That would've creeped me out, Miso.

[doppelgaenger]

Because they want to spread the piojos.

[misombra]

shorty, you're too sweet!

it didn't feel bad. the neck stroke gave me the shivers a little bit. is that one of those PUA things where guys are supposed to touch you so you'll be more comfortable with them or something?

i'm not lacking in human contact btw.

[Gigabitch]

The neck thing was way weird. I would be really uncomfortable with that. He invaded your intimate space.

Maybe your inner bitch should come out.

[Indignant]

it's very common for russians to have some sort of contact. i do too touch people more than neccessary probably. it's just a habit though. our men kiss and hug each other and put hands on each other when they talk, and so do women.

[Gigabitch]

Where Misombra and I live, it's a violation of personal space.

[Indignant]

Where Misombra and I live, it's a violation of personal space.

yeah, all cultures are different.

[bluesummer]

I am comfortable with being touched by women (usually its a friend-gesture like a hug or a pat on the back) but not by men. Men that touch me creep me out.

I don't know Miso, I would've spouted off with a "What the hell are you doing?" and give the look that says 'do that again and I'll kick your balls up into the back of your throat'.

[DoesntMatter]

I don't touch other people. But I like being touched by girls