And I am not talking about a little chubby...I am talking about FAT. And don't tell me about how they probably like the girl's personality. I am not talking about personality. I mean guys who actually likes a woman BECAUSE she's fat.
And I am not talking about a little chubby...I am talking about FAT. And don't tell me about how they probably like the girl's personality. I am not talking about personality. I mean guys who actually likes a woman BECAUSE she's fat.
It's a fetish, just like how some people are into short, bald guys.
Spammer Spanker
It's their life, I guess they are happy, so let it be.
I sometimes can't understand an attractive guy with a chubby girl either, but it happens.
I see most of the time, an attractive girl and a chubby guy, it's a part of life,
and I'm more happy for couples like that, because it'll probably last longer.
" Nothing is a waste of time, if you use the experience wisely."
=> Auguste Rodin
It's all about what people find attractive. Just because fat isn't attractive to YOU, it doesn't mean everybody out there finds it unattractive. Ever heard the term "more cushion for the pushin'?".....some people are just into that.
Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever. - Mohandas Gandhi
The male is a domestic animal which, if treated with firmness, can be trained to do most things
The point IS.....
it may be unattractive to YOU, but not to everyone. Some people find fat people attractive. No one needs to understand or agree with it, just accept it.
Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever. - Mohandas Gandhi
They like a little cushion' for the pushin'.
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baby ya hustle. but me i hustle harder.
Haven't you ever heard the phrase "More cushion for the pushin'"?
Everybody has different reasons for loving someone. Maybe they feel really insecure, and want to fatten their lover up like Hansel and Grettel, so they can't mozy their ass through the door frame and cheat. Or maybe he is attracted to her mannerisms. Or maybe she's just that sweet - a lot of people believe personality is more important than physical attraction.
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I'd sooner be "pushing" with an overweight guy than a dumb one.
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
I've read that, in its extreme form, guys who have a fetish for obese women are into the control.
Their ideal is to be with an enormous tub of lard who is so debhilitated by her weight she struggles move off the bed. She becomes utterly dependant on him.
I've read of incidents where a woman has been hospitalised because of her weight and the guy was sneaking roast chickens into her.
Is it burnin'? Well, f-ck, now you're learnin'.
Eeeeew, that's disgusting
Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
God or the Devil
~Born to Live - Mavrik~
I had a patient who had ruptured her stomach because of eating too much after a gastric bypass surgery. They had to put a feeding tube into her intestines and she wasn't allowed any food by mouth, but wouldn't you know? Her family was bringing her in food anyway.
I think they were trying to kill her.
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
I'm not sure it rises to a level of a fetish because it's not a sexual attraction to a non-sexual attribute (i.e feet). I think it's just a preference just like any other. Some women are attracted to very tall men ... is that a fetish? Some men strongly prefer blondes ... is that a fetish? Many men prefer large breasts ... is that a fetish?
It's almost like the OP is saying that fat women don't deserve attraction so it's "abnormal" for a man to be attracted to them.
Carl.
Fat people need love too!
..::.*Love is giving someone the ability to break your heart but trusting them not to*.::..