Fantasies are just fantasies Frasbee... and on top of that - you're a guy... eh, intoxicating ass-raping dreams of beautiful, defiant woman is to be somewhat expected. As long as you don't go out in real life and attempt this on real women... then there's really nothing wrong with it. Plus, you seem to have a rather good understanding about real women and a form of respect for them (hence the guilt associated with the 'raping' of your figment of your imagination).
Go forth... and dream some more... and please.. keep us posted..
"The weakest soul, knowing its own weakness, and believing this truth that strength can only be developed by effort and practice, will, thus believing, at once begin to exert itself, and, adding effort to effort, patience to patience, and strength to strength, will never cease to develop, and will at last grow divinely strong."
- James Allen