Im not asking "a woman" im asking all women

[SYoungGuy]

Wrong place to look for help.

[SYoungGuy]

Wrong place to look for help.

[IndiReloaded]

Sorry, Coles Notes please?

[SYoungGuy]

Wrong place to look for help.

[IndiReloaded]

A summary of your main points will get you more replies. Up to you, tho.

[Junket]

Haha.

I saw where this was going as soon as you said this "the "average guys" that kept cheating on her".

And I'll tell you why.

The average guy doesn't cheat.

However, women with low self esteem have a tendency to be drawn to men who will take advantage of them.

This may mess with your logic, but that's just the way it is. You are a support system. You're not her attraction. You never will be. Girls don't make sense like that. There's absolutely nothing you can do or say that will make her want you.

You could move all the way to wherever the hell she is, and it'll only freak her out.

Another thing is, she's on-line, and too far away. 16? Not even worth it. I would chalk this up to being a failed internet relationship. Hell, an internet relationship with two committed individuals is still likely to fail, much less one with a desperate romantic and an insecure abuse magnet.

[url]http://www.loveforum.net/love-advice-forum/25301-collection-doomed-internet-relationships.html[/url]

[SYoungGuy]

Deleted some personal stuff

[Junket]

When i said "the average guy" i meant a normal guy, a guy who is self-centered, degrades women, goes out with someone for only their looks, and the only thing "the average guy" wants in a relationship is sex.

This is incorrect.

if i had to choose between Sex and Love, i would choose Love.

That's what mothers are for.

She will eventually come to her senses, and will eventually pick the bad ones out of the crowd.

You have provided no evidence that this is correct.


You are putting way too much pressure on her to live up to your expectations, as a result it's destined to fail.

Does she even live near by?

Anyway regardless, you are already in the "friend zone", and she's already taking measures to insure that you stay there. Don't be surprised if she pulls out crap like "I don't want to lose you...as a friend". And give you some kind of hope that she'll come around.

If she changes her ways in terms of who she dates, good for her, but don't expect her to come running into your arms. Women rarely fall for men diagnosed with the "shining knight syndrome". Ever heard of it?