i can't jack-off

[glow]

okay, so i can't masturbate.
i'm a chick and only can if i'm in a relationship with a guy. otherwise, no matter what i don't feel anything. i've tried and i feel nothing, it's actually just kinda awful feeling.
what's that about?

[NeoSeminole]

you're a girl. You're not suppose to make sense.

[Aeradalia]

okay, so i can't masturbate.
i'm a chick and only can if i'm in a relationship with a guy. otherwise, no matter what i don't feel anything. i've tried and i feel nothing, it's actually just kinda awful feeling.
what's that about?

Not sure what kind of advice to give... since I've never had this problem. However, I would imagine this is more of a psychological problem. Either you are focusing way too much on the mechanics of the whole process or you aren't imagining anything erotic enough to pique your interests.

you're a girl. You're not suppose to make sense.

Women can make sense... I've seen it on very rare occasions --- but that's only because they were lucky enough to find the owner's manual.

[Lipp]

It's god's punishment for your sins. Repent, bitch!

But, err, would "jack-off" be a proper term for this case?

[Aeradalia]

If not "jack-off" then maybe 'rubbing-off' or 'fondling furiously'?

[Lipp]

"Yanking with frustration"

"Scooping the honey out of the bottom of the beehive"

"Pulling the porcupi......Okay.....I'll stop there.

[glow]

haha, i hang out with boys, i call it jacking-off i also use phrases like creaming your jeans.
psychological, not so sure, i mean, i can masturbate still it's not like i'm scared of it, it's just unless i'm seeing someone i'm not turned on when i'm alone. i used to be able to do it but in the last year i can't so i don't think i would all of a sudden start focusing on mechanics after being active for this long.

[1averagejoe]

Have you while watching some porn?

[glow]

ya,
porn does absolutely nothing for me

[Riyko]

It could be more of a mental or physical problem.

The only thing I can recommend would be to go to a doctor and ask about it, they may be able to help you out with that.

[1averagejoe]

ya,
porn does absolutely nothing for me

Ya I think neo is right...women are just complicated like that.

I'll offer to help you.

[Illusional]

okay, so i can't masturbate.
i'm a chick and only can if i'm in a relationship with a guy. otherwise, no matter what i don't feel anything. i've tried and i feel nothing, it's actually just kinda awful feeling.
what's that about?

would you like to come over to my place and i'll get the job done for you.

raverboy

[Indignant]

i think you broke it.

[Aeradalia]

Ya I think neo is right...women are just complicated like that.

I'll offer to help you.

That may be, but not this complicated... somethings not quite right.

It could be more of a mental or physical problem.

The only thing I can recommend would be to go to a doctor and ask about it, they may be able to help you out with that.

i think you broke it.

ya,
porn does absolutely nothing for me

I have to agree with the others... you should be able to achieve arousal without another being present... and if you can't then it's 'broken'... in that there's a psychological or physical culprit. I would seriously suggest seeking professional help of some kind, because it might a symptom of some underlying psychological or medical problem.

[carl1222]

You all are soo brutal.

Glow ... go to Sharper Image and get a personal massager ... $49 ... if that doesn't help, get therapy!

Carl.