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    I need to know if I should be upset or not.

    Hello and thanks for reading my post *blush*

    Is it normal that your gf is texting a guy friend in the middle of the night?

    I wanna know if it normal or not. It's been happening for several days of the week for quite some time now.

    It's bugging me and I wanna know if I just should let it go or not.

    Please help me :3

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dani Pani View Post
    Is it normal that your gf is texting a guy friend in the middle of the night?
    It's usually not normal, but it depends on the friend and on the reasons why. Have you asked her why she does that?
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    She says it is because he's a good friend and she likes his company.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dani Pani View Post
    She says it is because he's a good friend and she likes his company.
    What are they like when they are together? Have you been with them? Did you see anything inappropriate?
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    obviously if it happens often it's nothing important. and in the middle of the night...well that seems a little fishy....but...u never know. so talk to her about it. If she gets defensive and pissed off...i'm pretty sure something is going on

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    You mean you don't know whether you are upset or not?

    Mbe you should figure that out first?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dani Pani View Post
    Hello and thanks for reading my post *blush*

    Is it normal that your gf is texting a guy friend in the middle of the night?

    I wanna know if it normal or not. It's been happening for several days of the week for quite some time now.

    It's bugging me and I wanna know if I just should let it go or not.

    Please help me :3
    I would say that's a HUGE red flag. She's YOUR gf. Not that you should be possessive or controlling, but late night conversations are different from random conversations and you have good reason to be worried.

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    Meh. He knows the scoop. Here Dani, its an article about how men are better at knowing their women are cheating:

    [url]http://abcnews.go.com/Technology/story?id=6142469[/url]

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    Quote Originally Posted by IndiReloaded View Post
    Meh. He knows the scoop. Here Dani, its an article about how men are better at knowing their women are cheating:

    [url]http://abcnews.go.com/Technology/story?id=6142469[/url]
    Hahahaha ... how did I just know that the article would have an evolutionary basis???

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    Quote Originally Posted by carl1222 View Post
    Hahahaha ... how did I just know that the article would have an evolutionary basis???

    Carl
    Too predictable? Ah well.

    I am also finishing Obama's 'Audacity of Hope' but he didn't have much to say on the matter, I'm afraid. Or rather, I think *he's* afraid, as far as this topic goes. Michelle is rather formidable, I gather.

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    Quote Originally Posted by IndiReloaded View Post
    Too predictable? Ah well.

    I am also finishing Obama's 'Audacity of Hope' but he didn't have much to say on the matter, I'm afraid. Or rather, I think *he's* afraid, as far as this topic goes. Michelle is rather formidable, I gather.
    Oh no!!! So Obama one will be like Clinton one and two??

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    I don't think so. Michelle Obama seems different from Hillary. Less bitchy, not as Maggie Thatcher. Perhaps its the fatigue from the second child, tho time will tell.

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