o here's my dillema...
I've been dating/in contact with this girl for about a month and a half now. We met through a dating site (which she still updates and checks very regularly). In that time we've been on 2 fairly dates, and talked for many hours on the phone, texted a bit, and added each other on facebook. Now, the thing is, this was mostly in October... in November I've seen her once briefly (at an event she invited me to that I could only stay at for a few minutes).
Throughout November we'd arranged a few times to meet up but she ended up canceling them (albeit for what seem like generally legit reasons). A lot of this (especially in the second half of the month and now) has to do with school... she's been burdened with exams and essays and her job. A couple weeks ago she told that her canceling all this time was NOT her blowing me off. This re-assured me... but I'm having a real hard time reading her interest levels.
When I text her she usually responds, but not always (I don't text her that often... maybe once or twice a week recently... left a facebook wall post about 3 days ago with no response). Same for phone calls (some respond, some not). Anyway, she's indicated that as of December 2nd she'll be a lot freer (no more school stuff), and I'm really hoping she'll come through with that. She said she was looking forward to seeing my work (I'm an artist) at that time. I feel as if there might be something there, but I haven't see her nearly enough to be sure yet. I really hate for this kind of process to drag on indefinitely. I'm getting sort of mixed signals, and it's frustrating. I'm the type who either goes full in or not at all... none of this wishy-washy stuff. Like to know where I stand in other words. Maybe I just hate dating sites because of the insecurity they cause me... I dunno lol.
I guess my question is how long should I let this stuff go on before I have a talk with her about making this a more regular thing/or moving on altogether...? I only date one person at a time, so I don't want to drag this out... she's said she doesn't fall for someone right away... it takes her a while to get to that point. My concern is that the longer it goes, she might be dating other people, thus minimizing my chances (again, the dating site thing lol). Cut off? or continue to see where it goes? when to ask her?