yeh i was in the house alone (obviously) when that episode of happiness overcame me, but yes i do have a thing about certain manners at the table. my ex one time leaned over without asking and took the rest of my food from my plate while i was taking a quick rest from eating! i even had my knife and fork in the correct resting position.....we had only been seeing each other a couple of weeks and i almost broke up with him for it, i was so amazed. mom has drilled table manners into us since the very beginning. i'm very protective of my food so i can't stand anyone leaning over my food to reach for the salt etc.....drives me mad.