so sick of punks who doesn't know how to please a women

[ecojeanne]

Exactly.

Do ppl actually pay you for your counsel, Indignant? Yikes.

well maybe she knows something we don't!??

come on, do tell indignant, i'm facinated as to how you can come to this conclusion. do you know something we dont?

[Rob26]

Since I don't plan to depend on men for money...I think from now on...I should target my interest on the good looking but not extraordinarily successful men and screw as many of them as I can. And if the relationships don't last at least there is the sexual element and I won't have my heart broken that bad. What do you think?

a) Single people -- male or female -- are doomed to be at an economic disadvantage their whole lives. Hope you don't mind that. I guess cats are cheap.

b) Good luck getting a man with a track record of screwing as many goodlooking men as you can. They're the most likely to screw you and leave you and then other guys aren't too likely to want the used up skank.

[Mish]

1. Those who will "accept" middle of the road. They will not give out too much of themselves and will stay with someone out of convenience and comfort.

2. Those people who will not accept anyone less than their ideal. Now I am not saying that the ideal is perfect, but this is the person that they know is right for them.

I think there's also a #3 there somewhere between those two. Someone who is realistic enough to know they won't find an ideal or even a complete right match and at the same time who don't look for a partner just for convenience and comfort. Those who know where the acceptable balance lies between the unatainable perfect and the easy average.

[lastwish]

b) Good luck getting a man with a track record of screwing as many goodlooking men as you can. They're the most likely to screw you and leave you and then other guys aren't too likely to want the used up skank.

Its so unfair that women are considered skanks when its completely normal for guys.

[IndiReloaded]

This is why I think gals in particular should just keep their mouths shut about their previous partners. Fact is, the bias exists.

[Gribble]

Its so unfair that women are considered skanks when its completely normal for guys.

I've always wrestled with that. Intellectually I agree. My emotions, however, aren't so sure.

I try to justify my heart by saying women have sex, men want it. It's the woman's responsibility to ration it out responsibly.

Anyway, in response to your original post I think you'd be better off in the long run showing a little patience and training one of those thoughtful and intelligent guys. They'll treat you better and looks really don't make up for insipid conversation.

[ecojeanne]

I've always wrestled with that. Intellectually I agree. My emotions, however, aren't so sure.

I try to justify my heart by saying women have sex, men want it. It's the woman's responsibility to ration it out responsibly.

Anyway, in response to your original post I think you'd be better off in the long run showing a little patience and training one of those thoughtful and intelligent guys. They'll treat you better and looks really don't make up for insipid conversation.

ye but stupid guys are a happier bunch

[Mish]

I'm fare. I treat male and female skanks equally.

[Charlie Boy II]

Lastwish you might find more success this way. Personally I find a girl who has a laid back attitude to dating very attractive. It's very pressured and tiresome being with somebody focused on finding the "one".

Relationships should be about fun and undemanding companionship. F-ck all that other stuff. Unless you've got kids, what does it matteR?

[misombra]

you don't have to have sex with them but you can date them and let them do nice things for you.

[Charlie Boy II]

Like growl her out?

[Mish]

Lastwish you might find more success this way. Personally I find a girl who has a laid back attitude to dating very attractive. It's very pressured and tiresome being with somebody focused on finding the "one".

I think it's due to biological clock. It ticks faster for women and it's more important for them to make sure they're not wasting their time.

[Charlie Boy II]

yeah I know. That's why I'm not going to date anyone over 23.

[Gribble]

I was just talking about that with someone the other day. Women reach a certain age and that's it. All they want is somebody to play house with. I hadn't really paid it much attention, but with one or two exceptions all the ladies I date have been 22 or younger.

[vashti]

You guys are going about it all wrong. If you want to get someone carefree, you need to date older professional women who aren't interested in having a family (including a husband).