Friend turned to foes

[jusloseit]

hello everyone ive got a serious problem i have a frnd from past 4yrs v have been gud frnds sharin ol d secrets till school now wen v r in same college i m frustrated wid his company i dont want him anymore bcuz he has got a problem he thinks he is stud lukin guy which he not!!!! earlier i use to ignore it but now i cant bear dis nemore where ever v go meet gals he tries to seek everybody's attention n in d process he puts me back m really pissed off plzz help me out.......

[vaneigem]

Maybe it's just a phase-he's suddenly realised that he can attract girls so it's gone to his head, but he'll regain a sense of perspective soon enough.

Unless he actually IS a stud looking guy...in which case, it sounds a bit like you might be a little jealous of him giving other girls more attention than you. Ask yourself honestly if that's what it is; I don't mean to imply that you secretly fancy him to bits, but close female-male friendships always have a slight sexual dynamic. If it's because you feel threatened by other girls, you have to remember that although he's acting like this he still needs you as a friend, and is still going to be your friend regardless of him chasing after other girls. Flip the situation on it's head and imagine you decided to start flirting with everyone/sleeping around or whatever and he got jealous because of it. Would that mean you didn't still value his friendship? Of course not. He's a friend, not a lover; if one of your girl friends was behaving like this would you have the same reaction?

[krondragon]

If he was a girl instead of a guy, I doubt you'd even be pissed if she chased after guys and didn't pay as much attention to you.

[Petit Papillon]

Hmm maybe it's not adequate to the issue but... Your spelling is terrible ,god, I barely could read it...

[IndiReloaded]

What? I can't even read that^.

[MichelleB]

yea, the whole attraction from girls stuff sounds like it got to his head, sounds like a phase though.

[genesys4]

just like what I'm experiencing right about now, only thing I'm the a#&%$*? guy that she hated so much.
but I wouldn't go to the extend of labelling my friends as foes, and MOST certainly I DID NOT push them off.they are still my friends nevertheless!!
I wonder why the girls think this way,can any girl care to elaborate!?

Maybe it's just a phase-he's suddenly realised that he can attract girls so it's gone to his head, but he'll regain a sense of perspective soon enough.

what's up with regaining some sense of perspective? I'd admit this thing got to my head a bit,how to over come it...

[Only-virgins]

hello everyone ive got a serious problem i have a frnd from past 4yrs v have been gud frnds sharin ol d secrets till school now wen v r in same college i m frustrated wid his company i dont want him anymore bcuz he has got a problem he thinks he is stud lukin guy which he not!!!! earlier i use to ignore it but now i cant bear dis nemore where ever v go meet gals he tries to seek everybody's attention n in d process he puts me back m really pissed off plzz help me out.......

I thik t be becuz u jeluz.