Watch tv and movies and copy what they do for the appropriate situation. There problem solved. Just do whatever her tongue does. Best advice I can give for a first kiss as it worked for me long ago. And ya you can tell ppl that absolutely suck at kissing cause the biggest thing I think is to make sure your'e in sync with who you are kissing and some ppl just cant seem to do that. After your past that then try new things and see what happens.