Hi,
I'm happy to have found your community and hope my experiences can benefit the gals and guys who are looking for clues. After a short marriage and a long divorce, I started to wonder if my ex ever loved in the way I did. That's the short version of what launched me on a six year quest, traveling the country listening to 527 men talk about love, commitment and women. My only rules were that this was NOT about dating, they were not to hit on me, I would not use their names, and we would never meet again. It was an exhausting and surprising odyssey.