What is going to happen now...

[Mattur]

The past few days my girlfriend hasnt really been talking to me when were together. This has happend like 4 times now and I'm not sure what to do. Everytime I start to try to talk about something and break the silence she will give me a 1 word response and that will be it... So I decided that if she wanted to talk that I would let her start it. When she finally called me last night she was quiet (er than usual) and she said that she doesnt understand why I like her and that she doesnt think she loves me. She has had relationship troubles in the past so IDK if shes afraid to get too involved or what... I said I still loved her and asked her if all the times she said she loved me if she was lying... She didnt know. I asked her if she wanted to break up and she said no... I have no idea what she is thinking...

[jcali]

I just had the same thing happen to me, and I panicked at first. I have read a lot, and I think you should instigate a time apart from her for about a week. But before you do this listen to some other advice as well.

[Mattur]

Okay, it could be a little hard to do because we have 7/10 classes together =P but yeah, please keep the advice coming :]