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    I think I want an Asian man

    It’s weird but I think I’ve now realised my ideal looking man physically. I spent years trying to figure out what I’m attracted to. I always knew I liked dark hair, thick eyebrows, chiseled jaw line and darker skin. My ex was Chinese and he had all these traits physically. To me he has amazing colour skin. Is there another deeper explanation? (I hope not) I don’t think I miss him and need someone as similar as possible to take his place surely?

    I went to a Chinese restaurant last night and I kept looking at the staff wondering what it would be like to date them (not have sex but long-term DATE) and I was definitely attracted to most of them.


    Has anyone thought that maybe you have dated someone because of similar traits your ex had and not necessarily on their own individual merits. Did it make you wonder whether you made the right decisions about your ex?

    Is this a ‘Friends’ (tv show) moment like Rachel dating ‘Russ’ not Ross (the two people were exactly the same and Rachel didn’t notice until the end)? It begs the question…am I still in love with my ex?
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    Yeah, for a long time I was into really dark hair and eyes.....which is how I hooked up with my ex-husband. He was east indian, and quite frankly, gorgeous.

    I still have a bit of a thing for indian men. The hot ones are just so insanely hot.
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    So you like girlie physique and a small penis?

    Illusional, your woman awaits!
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    I think Indian women are gorgeous

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cain View Post
    So you like girlie physique and a small penis?

    Illusional, your woman awaits!
    well i do think illusional is hot tbo. he's so my type
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    My first and only serious girlfriend was Japanese. Since then I've definitely had a special thing for asians.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Cain View Post
    So you like girlie physique and a small penis?

    Illusional, your woman awaits!
    :: Rolls eyes ::
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kiechi View Post
    :: Rolls eyes ::
    Figures.

    That's so Asian of you.
    I don't chase, I replace.

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    This is shallow.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ecojeanne View Post
    It’s weird but I think I’ve now realised my ideal looking man physically. I spent years trying to figure out what I’m attracted to. I always knew I liked dark hair, thick eyebrows, chiseled jaw line and darker skin. My ex was Chinese and he had all these traits physically. To me he has amazing colour skin. Is there another deeper explanation? (I hope not) I don’t think I miss him and need someone as similar as possible to take his place surely?

    I went to a Chinese restaurant last night and I kept looking at the staff wondering what it would be like to date them (not have sex but long-term DATE) and I was definitely attracted to most of them.


    Has anyone thought that maybe you have dated someone because of similar traits your ex had and not necessarily on their own individual merits. Did it make you wonder whether you made the right decisions about your ex?

    Is this a ‘Friends’ (tv show) moment like Rachel dating ‘Russ’ not Ross (the two people were exactly the same and Rachel didn’t notice until the end)? It begs the question…am I still in love with my ex?
    How about you date a mighty morphin power ranger? Whether they're white or asian, anybody who stereotypes kungfu moves and gets put into television series is asian in my eyes.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ecojeanne View Post
    It’s weird but I think I’ve now realised my ideal looking man physically. I spent years trying to figure out what I’m attracted to. I always knew I liked dark hair, thick eyebrows, chiseled jaw line and darker skin. My ex was Chinese and he had all these traits physically. To me he has amazing colour skin. Is there another deeper explanation? (I hope not) I don’t think I miss him and need someone as similar as possible to take his place surely?

    I went to a Chinese restaurant last night and I kept looking at the staff wondering what it would be like to date them (not have sex but long-term DATE) and I was definitely attracted to most of them.


    Has anyone thought that maybe you have dated someone because of similar traits your ex had and not necessarily on their own individual merits. Did it make you wonder whether you made the right decisions about your ex?

    Is this a ‘Friends’ (tv show) moment like Rachel dating ‘Russ’ not Ross (the two people were exactly the same and Rachel didn’t notice until the end)? It begs the question…am I still in love with my ex?
    Sorry, I'm taken by another white woman.

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    Ya...my ex is south asian...now I have the hots for south asian men.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DoesntMatter View Post
    I think Indian women are gorgeous

    +1. I would kill to look like Aishwarya Rai:


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    ^^ she looks more white to me.

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    I would kill to bang Aishwarya Rai
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