Thoughts about a 3-some with two guys and a girl?

[Phoenix_Blue]

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It seems to me it's def. an unusual thing, but when i was asking my bf about 3-somes, he said he'd prefer another guy, though he's completely straight- that'd it'd be for my pleasure. Don't most guys want another girl? The two 3-somes I had before were two girls, one guy (I'm bi, so enjoyed them, tho i was tech. 'the other woman' in both). I know people/couples sometimes think of the grouping to spice things up, he has no gay leanings whatsoever, and it makes me sick to think of another woman touching him or esp. visa versa, but that just adds to the confusion.

Why would a completely straight guy want another guy in a 3-some with his girlfriend? i think went like he was thinking of me playing with the other guy (like a sub/dom/kink kinda thing i think), or just being pleasured by both, or one guy inside me while i gave the other a bj, but idk. Is it weird he's had those thoughts/that fantasy? Does it mean anything? In a flip sense could it also mean he's fantasized about another girl and this is preliminary in his head? Somebody translate for me. I'm not sure if i'd do it even if i was interested [whether because of my own hang-ups or what], and i know you shouldn't do something you're not comfortable with, i guess i just wish i could get in his head more, understand

[shh!]

I think he either has voyeuristic or homosexual tendencies.

[Gribble]

If you ask me it makes no sense. Unless he's actually somewhat interested in men why would he want another guy present when he could have another girl?

[1averagejoe]

I don't know anyone that would want to be in bed with another guy and his girlfriend.

He's bi.

[miSSleepy]

I have heard straight guys say that it tuns them on to se their gf with another guy. It isn't the guy that turns them on, but the image of their gf having sex and they're able to watch.

[Henry123]

(2 guys and 1 girl)
It sounds like a porn fantasy thing to be honest.
It doesnt necessarily mean he's gay. I have heard of guys talking about this type of fantasy befor. Its almost like a gang bang porno fantasy thing.

Maybe he just sees you as only a sex mate?

[Indus18]

When my sister's boyfriend started asking for this (yes, believe me, I wish I didn't know, but my sister tends to over-share) it was teh beginning of the unraveling of a much bigger bi-sexual story.

I hope that's not the case with your guy. I've heard of couples picking up another guy, but to me it sounds odd. Maybe he just feels as though he's not pleasing you enough? You should definitely ask him why he feels like you would need two guys to be completely pleasured. Most girls find one attentive, skilled man to be everything they've ever wanted in bed...

[misombra]

i'd try it.

[Junket]

i'd try it.

Do you have more than one hole to spare?

Or are would you be asking your boyfriend to spare one of his...?

[lesa]

Maybe he's done of you.

[Zilla80]

I'm a guy and I don't think it means you're gay or even bi.

Just means you are a fuh-reak

[xO Lanna]

I would totally dig that if I were you. Don't read too much into it. It could be fun for you. Have one guy going down on you while the other is caressing your body.

[My Advice]

It's a domination fantasy.

[bluesummer]

I would totally read into that. If my man suggested a threesome, he would only ever suggest a woman. Ever.

A third party is never welcome in our bed anyways. It's a violation of our relationship, as far as I'm concerned.

[Zilla80]

To me it's different inviting some man who you live near or know over to be in a 3-some... and being out on vacation in a foreign country and getting freaky like that.