So I have fell for a friend of mine.
My best friend, lets call him John went out with a girl, and we'll call her Jane. They went out for about a month back in March, and John went on a cruise, and cheated on Jane with a chick he met. He dumped her, and I've been talking to Jane for awhile now, since March. We talk a lot, and hang out occasionally. She stalked him for awhile, but she seems to be over John. Over the time I've known Jane, we've become loser, and we talk a lot. We have a lot in common. Now I'm not a good looking guy at all. I am overweight, at about 260 pounds or so. I am not really outgoing around girls, but with her, I am pretty outgoing. I did a lot of thinking and I came to the realization that I like Jane as more than just friends. I had my cell phone with me while I was gone for a week, and I started to text her, dropping her hints and stuff. She ended up calling my best friend and said, "I think Bob likes me, but I don't know how I feel."
Jane is away on a conference this week until Friday, so I texted her and told her how I felt. Yes, I know it is cheesy how I went about telling her how I feel, but I got a response from her, and she said that she doesn't want a relationship with someone who is good friends with one of her exs. I then pointed out to her that she hasn't had a good relationship because every guy she has been with has cheated on her somehow. I told her that if she gave me a shot, I could change that. She then responded telling me that she just doesn't feel the same right now. She has been known to be the kind of girl who is shallow, and a lot of girls are.
Basically, I really like Jane, and she is the kind of girl I could enjoy a relationship with, but I don't know how it is going to work out. Any ideas on how to win her over would be really great. I know it's cheesy, but I don't want to give up.