I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for almost a year and a half. She sees our love as pure destiny. Although this is true, we are both virgins. I am not ashamed to say it and neither is she. Now she is 18 years old and very mature about the situation. Although this is true, she is Japanese and she is very small. she is five foot three inches in height. We both have taken the right proportions and looked at condams and so forth to stay safe. I care about her and I dont want to put her in a life ending situation, IE accidentally getting her pregnant. That wouldnt be fare to her. Now I havent made love before but the both of us are willing to learn together. Ok, the big question is this. How gental do I need to be. I plan on making it very comfortable for her, but like I said, she is very small? Any Ideas...