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    She might have left him for me. What should I do?

    I am really good friends with this girl Audrey. I recently came back from college for the weekend, and while we were hanging out, she told me that she was having problems with her fiance. We talked about it for a few days, and one night she came over to my house because she was crying, and one thing led to another. The day afterwards, I'm on the train back to college, and she tells me that she left her fiance, and had to call 911 because he got so mad. Then she basically tells me that she loves me, and is so happy that i am in her life. What do you think i should do?

    any advice is appreciated

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    Do you like her as more than friends?
    I don't chase, I replace.

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    I'm not a fan of taking in a woman immediately after she's exited another relationship. I think she should have a cooling off period to make sure her head's on straight before pursuing any sort of relationship with you.

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    if she really wanted to date, i would. but i think i should give her some time. i dont wanna be the rebound guy

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    Tsk. You took advantage of her when she was upset. Classic, but not very gentlemanly behaviour.

    I don't think you two should date. It doesn't sound to me like you really care about this gal. Send her back to her fiance if he will still have her.
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    there was always sexual tension between the two of us. we had hooked up before, but this was the first time we had sex. plus i think she was going toleave her fiance regardless

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    Quote Originally Posted by atasciot View Post
    if she really wanted to date, i would. but i think i should give her some time. i dont wanna be the rebound guy
    bingo!... you hit the nail on the head.

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