But begging and apologizing are very different things.
And I don't think she just wanted him to beg for revenge, because she would have taken him back if he would have begged.
I don't chase, I replace.
this is all common sense things, you don't need a book to tell you that.
raverboy
...this is just my perspective on the situation...
Actually I prefer a guy who is more soft in the inside and doesn't necessarily need to win every emotional war with his SO. I don't think begging is neccessarily a "pussy" thing and it does not have to involve killing every bit of pride and respect. I think all apologies have a begging element to it. If you are not begging for forgiveness..then what is exactly is an apology?
The only kind of begging I can see in an apology is if he cheated on you or hit you. Then maybe I could see it.
Begging is pathetic. It shows weakness. It shows that he's too needy and that he will fall apart without her. If you want a guy that's that attached, I can understand why you'd want him to beg.
I still think it's a pussy thing to do. A guy can be in touch with emotions and not beg.
I don't chase, I replace.
I used to think that needing someone was a good thing. But it's not. It's unhealthy. Relationships aren't always forever. To need someone that you're in a relationship with is bad. You shouldn't have to need that person for your life to feel good. I'm learning that myself. And making you feel important should be a big thing to him.
But, begging isn't the way to go. It shows weakness. It shows that he has no pride and no self respect. A guy can show that he wants you in his life and makes you feel important without having to beg.
I don't chase, I replace.
yes probably...I have validation issues. Its something I'm working on.
I can't deal with begging or moping or trying to garner pity after a breakup. It usually just makes me feel icky.
It's one of the reasons I've had a hard time even considering rekindling with my other ex (the non-crazy one). Everytime I talk to him and ask him how he's doing, he says "Not good." and will go on about how much he misses me. We broke up a year ago and our conversations still go like this. It puts me in the position where I cannot even think clearly about it because it makes me feel like he is trying to guilt-trip me.
“Inside every cynical person, there is a disappointed idealist”--George Carlin