I have noticed that i fall easily for my female friends, even if it's not in the idea of dating, I just seem to like to love. but the question at hand is: Does becoming a close/best friend with someone weaken or even kill your chances of dating them?
Most of my best friends are female, I seem to find more in common with females then i do males. but I was told by on of my male friends that I am killing my chances of dating any of my female friends because I'm so open to them.
when i asked him to explain his reasoning: "You're completely open with your friends, and you show you care, but the level of your commitment toward your lady friends make some boyfriends look bad. in essence they don't need to date you to get your attention, and your not exactly a looker."
^.^ i know my looks have played against me but that aside is there ground to which he stands?