Hitting on girls

[Lostalien]

That's very very true! Thank for opening my eyes!

I find these turn downs.

Sure there's a way to manipulate people with words, but you don't get women solely through them. If a girl doesn't dig on you, you can tell her whatever and she still won't be with you, and if she finds you sexy, you can tell her even something stupid. Forget about the phrases, be natural and honest. Players are too much a spread kind that most women built up a defensive system, just like the bugs from some sprays.

[Gribble]

Usually if I'm interested in a girl at a bar I bet her five bucks she can't touch her elbows behind her back. And then I stare at her titties while she tries.

[Lostalien]

I think what I need is how to compliment her ;] Not pick up lines.. Or yes! However compliments really work and make her say: awwwwwww thanks!!!!!!! That's what I need! LOL I'm so elated now! my skills will be polished!

Please people.. COMPLIMENTS!

[shh!]

I don't suggest complimenting strangers with any line you hear on the internet. In order for a girl over 15 years old to be genuinely touched by a compliment, it needs to be about something other than her appearance, or we know it is just a ploy to get in our pants.

[Lostalien]

I think that's the big problem: Almost all the girls think every guy wants to get in their pants.... I actually just look for someone very special. I thought I found that person, but she'll be gone away from Toronto....

By the way, she's not an stranger coz she knows me. It won't work coz she's going away to study music. I didn't know she was gonna go away..... It sucks!!!!

I don't suggest complimenting strangers with any line you hear on the internet. In order for a girl over 15 years old to be genuinely touched by a compliment, it needs to be about something other than her appearance, or we know it is just a ploy to get in our pants.

[Mish]

I think that's the big problem: Almost all the girls think every guy wants to get in their pants....

So why not kill off that irrational fear by not trying to get into their pants?

Just have a fun conversation without any expectations.

[shh!]

I think that's the big problem: Almost all the girls think every guy wants to get in their pants....

Not ALL the guys.. just the ones who come over and talk to them.