I'd like to write her a letter, but...

[Only-virgins]

Then I hope he uses a baseball bat.

You're not getting my point. I think it's totally disrespectful to her relationship to voice your love to a girl that's involved with someone else.

You live your life in fear, you strike me as one extremely pathetic man Cain. I pity you.

[Only-virgins]

Good question... I guess I'm afraid of forgetting her, or fell in love with another girl.. I think I gotta move on, I mean to leave her alone and start looking for someone else... but I pretty hard to do so and I don't know but something preventing of doing this...

Before you do send her the letter. You might get some closure and if it is love you feel than profess it in the letter...why beat around the bush? What is it you can lose? Nothing. Let go but not before an attempt first. Either way, I know the love you are talking about and I know what it is like...I sent a letter like this too to a girl that has a boyfriend of many years. The thing is that 10 years later I have not fallen in love like that again...not to scare you but I heard it doesn't happen after a certain age often...after all...I am still waiting.

[TheSameOldStory]

I don't want to send her a love letter, not yet, I've heard that she flew with some of her friends (including with her boyfriend) abroad, so, I guess I better to write her how was the vacation, ask her to send some pictures of the sights over there, or something like that, but I'm not sure how do it exactly..

[Cain]

But how will I know when she broke up with him, if I'm not even a friend of her...

starbuck:
There are some, but I haven't met one like her, my friends are trying to match me with some girls too, but I always turn them down... .

You do understand that if you profess your love to her and she doesn't break up with her boyfriend, she most likely won't be your friend, right? People can't be friends if one person loves the other.

[Cain]

You live your life in fear, you strike me as one extremely pathetic man Cain. I pity you.

How do I live my life in fear? Because I have some ethics and morals? I'm sorry, but not everyone has to be all "**** morals.. I'm going to do what's best for my selfish needs." Just because I have certain opinions doesn't mean I'm scared or pathetic. In reality, if you want to go that far, I think it's pathetic to be tongue ****ing the rotting pussy of a stripper that let 30 OTHER guys tongue **** her the same night. But yeah, I'm pathetic.

[TheSameOldStory]

You do understand that if you profess your love to her and she doesn't break up with her boyfriend, she most likely won't be your friend, right? People can't be friends if one person loves the other.

I do understand, I won't profess my love to her as long as she got a boyfriend, I just wanted to sand her a friendly letter, to ask "What's up, how was your trip" or something like that, you know, there is nothing wrong with that, and I don't confess in my love either... .

[Cain]

Good. At least now you're doing the right thing. Keep it friendly. Don't even express that you have feelings for her. In your original post, however, you wanted to include song lyrics so it'd be known that you were in love with her.

[Only-virgins]

How do I live my life in fear? Because I have some ethics and morals? I'm sorry, but not everyone has to be all "**** morals.. I'm going to do what's best for my selfish needs." Just because I have certain opinions doesn't mean I'm scared or pathetic. In reality, if you want to go that far, I think it's pathetic to be tongue ****ing the rotting pussy of a stripper that let 30 OTHER guys tongue **** her the same night. But yeah, I'm pathetic.

You don't understand, morals are an opinion. What is morally right for you is not for someone else. Cultural relativism doesn't concern me either, I just want to live life with out worrying about every little thing. Unlike you I don't go around fearing every mouth diseases, falling down stairs, and getting beat up by a jealous boyfriend...these are consequences I could not care less for unless they actually occur. I don't get into a car each morning expecting to be in a highway 5 car pile up. I don't care what the odds are or not, I simply live life as nature intended it to be. You live in fear. I'm sorry but it is really pathetic.

[Cain]

You don't understand, morals are an opinion. What is right for you I think is stupid. Though unlike you I don't go around fearing every mouth diseases, falling down stairs, and getting beat up by a jealous boyfriend...these are consequences I could not care less for unless they actually occur. I don't get into a car each morning expecting to be in a highway 5 car pile up. I don't care what the odds are or not, I simply live life and nature intended it to be. You live in fear.

If that's how you want to look at it, fine. I just don't live for stupidity, which is what you are doing by licking the pussy of some ****ing hooker... that you admitted got busy with the 30 other guys there.

Yeah, I'm pathetic. Wish I could be as tough as you are... ****ing random women... testing the odds. Man, I'm gonna be really jealous when you get an STD and I don't. I'm gonna be wishing I had lived life!

[jinx343]

Good question... I guess I'm afraid of forgetting her, or fell in love with another girl.. I think I gotta move on, I mean to leave her alone and start looking for someone else... but I pretty hard to do so and I don't know but something preventing of doing this...

seems like she is enjoying her time with her bf....

so why dont you give it a try? go out.. hang out withyour firends and give some girls a chance to get to know you and you get to know them as well.. you dont have to have an exclusive date, you could go out on group dates if you feel awkward doing it for the first time. it's one way of knowing how you truly feel. plus, sometimes, you meet great people in situations and places you least expect. you just need to open your eyes more to see the big picture.

just like you not letting her know how you feel when she was still single... you will also never know what's in store for you unless you take the first step.. try... get to know some girls.. who knows?

[Only-virgins]

If that's how you want to look at it, fine. I just don't live for stupidity, which is what you are doing by licking the pussy of some ****ing hooker... that you admitted got busy with the 30 other guys there.

Yeah, I'm pathetic. Wish I could be as tough as you are... ****ing random women... testing the odds. Man, I'm gonna be really jealous when you get an STD and I don't. I'm gonna be wishing I had lived life!

I didn't **** and neither did anyone else there. I'm not testing odds, I'm just living my life. How does one live for stupidity anyways?

[Cain]

I didn't **** and neither did anyone else there. I'm not testing odds, I'm just living my life. How does one live for stupidity anyways?

When you do something as stupid as eating out a hooker without knowing what diseases she may have.... that's living for stupidity.

[Only-virgins]

When you do something as stupid as eating out a hooker without knowing what diseases she may have.... that's living for stupidity.

"Living for stupidity" ...that makes no sense what so ever. The quote itself.

[Cain]

"Living for stupidity" ...that makes no sense what so ever. The quote itself.

... You say that you want to live life and not fear anything... but some of the shit you're doing to live your life is absolutely stupid.

That better?

[Citycat]

Definitely, I want to be a friend of her as long as she got him (when she breaks up with him, I'll try to take our friendship a level upper)... but If there is no way to be a friend of her either, so I better try to find someone else...

Wait till she comes back from her vacation and then ring her and ask her how her vacation was and whether she'd like to go with you and your friends to __________ (fill the gap).