My ex was always really sweet to me, and went out of his way to do things that he knew that I would appreciate. And I sprained my ankle one night and while I was on crutches for the next week and a half, he carried me up all my stairs to my apt (i was on the 4th floor). I never once asked him to, he was just being a sweetheart every time, and I think it made him feel all tough and heroic but my roommate was there with us one of the times, and she straight out told him that he was pussywhipped. He didn't deny it at all, but I'd never tried to whip him. When a guy gets whipped, usually its because they bring it upon themselves. And although sometimes it lets the guy get walked over, a lot of the times its just the guy going out of his way to do nice things for his girlfriend. I think when a guy is ordered around and manipulated, thats not being pussywhipped, thats being mentally abused, or something.
And just because they're whipped doesn't mean the girl is in control. What girl wants to lose it? I lost it, and it sucks
Cinderella said to Snow White
"How does love get so off course
All I wanted was a white knight
With a good heart, soft touch, fast horse
Ride me off into the sunset
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