Why did he drop conversation?

[nebulachic]

I've been chatting with this guy for 2.5 months online. He has asked me out numerous times.. but I've always had something going on. We were chatting recently and he hasn't responded to my last email for days now. He has made sexual inuendos a lot of the time and some overt sexual comments and ignored him several times, but he would always come back a few days later. And sometimes I would make snippy comments and he would ignore me, but I would come back. But I have NO idea what went wrong this time. Was my joke "sweater" that bad (lanme) a joke????

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Me: That last pic of you is beautiful BTW.. sorry for the inconvenient second thought....

Him: Thank you for compliment...but "inconvenient"?

Me: Inconvenient... because I bombarded you with numerous emails....

Him: Oh...I thought it was because you might have been aroused at work or something.

Me: I believe the word I used was beautiful. Not typically the word I use to describe something I find arousing... although, I do find the hair around your navel a turn on. There.. you finally got one out of me! God you are tenacious! Via a compliment even!

Him: I wouldn't say "tenacious"...just frequently flip or glib. I was referring not to "beautiful" but "inconvenient", anyway. You sure that's hair?

Me: Yes I know you were referring to "inconvenient", I was trying to make a point however, using "beautiful". Not hair?? Well, were you maybe wearing a sweater and eating honey just before that pic was taken? Do you currently see hair around your navel area when you look down?

[Pears]

It doesn't sound offending. Maybe he had to go do something?

[lesa]

I have don't know. There could be a number of reasons for him to drop a conversation.

1. He was turned off or surprise by you comments.
2. Someone walked in.
3. He went back to work.
4. He lost interest.
5. Someone else online caught his interest.
6. He went to bathroom to check out his body.
7. He liked the silence.
8. He found a date and wanted to end this chat.
9. etc.

[Junket]

I vote to close Nebula's threads.

All in favor?

[Pears]

I think she's bored.

[Mish]

I've been chatting with this guy for 2.5 months online. He has asked me out numerous times.. but I've always had something going on. We were chatting recently and he hasn't responded to my last email for days now.

He asked you out a few times and you rejected? He probably thinks you're not interested and gone to find someone who is.

[nebulachic]

No, I didn't reject his offers to get together... I already had made other plans I couldn't get out of... particularly because 2xs he asked to get together later that day/night.

[Mish]

No, I didn't reject his offers to get together... I already had made other plans I couldn't get out of... particularly because 2xs he asked to get together later that day/night.

So you rejected his offers because you had other plans?

If you accepted his offers you would've planned to get together another time / day and you would've told him that

[FoxyLaydee]

Deja vous...

I swear I've read this thread before....

[1averagejoe]

He probably thinks you're trying to reject him by saying you've got plans and can't. You've done it not once, but twice. To be honest I'd probably give up after that.

I had something like this happen to me. I took it as a her trying to be nice to reject me. How about asking him out on a date? I wouldn't doubt he lost interest in you though.

[Hisdemise18]

hes one of those internet perverts and wants to see you nakid lol...

[nebulachic]

He has indicated many times he would like to see me naked and has asked numerous times for sexy/naked pics.

I dont think he feels I've rejected him.... I think he understands he asked to get together on too short notice most times.

[Lipp]

Online relationships...Meh. Get out there instead.

[lesa]

What do you see in this guy? All he wants is to see you nude? Why even be upset? I don't understand. Are you okay with just having that type of relationship or do you want more out of him?

[Junket]

What do you see in this guy? All he wants is to see you nude? Why even be upset? I don't understand. Are you okay with just having that type of relationship or do you want more out of him?

Don't bother Lesa, Nebula is as blonde as they come.