Get yourself to a spa. Have them shave your legs & get a backrub while your there. Tell hubs its your early M-day prezzie.
FWIW, I know you've seen docs for your back but have you seen a good physio? My back has been bothering me for a while so I went. Turns out what I thought the problem was, wasn't actually the problem at all. She released the facets b/t two of my vertebrae (which were pinching a nerve) & things are a lot better now.
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh