should I be upset??or overstressing it

[eh26]

ok ..so i need some advice , me and my girlfriend aint talking right now , here it is , she had plans with her family to go to austin on the weeknd , ..it was cool to me , this was on sunday , monday I recived some bad news , one of my best friends was in a wreck and has past away , i was devistated ,she didnt knew him very well but we all had drinks togther on various occasions, i told her about had happen and all but i wasnt going to let it interfer with her plans , kool she goes i'll call u back ,so the whole week I was with my friends and my friends family , went to the awake then the funeral , I was really stressed and not feeling well and just wanted to talk to someone close to me , you know , really started to miss my girl and wondered why she hasnt called ,I know she was going out of town but not even a call of how i was doing ? sunday , then monday , now tuesday, finally i got the nerve to call her , she ended up being at a local bar by my house, i asked her, whats up , she ended up not leaving out of town but just club hopping all weeknd ...I was like WTF, i was getting upset , not the fact that she went out , just the simple fact that , she couldnt give me a simple call to see how i was doing, losing a friend sucks , but what yall think should i let it go ??maybe i was under alot of stress but i need someones opinion ....thanx

[vashti]

Your girlfriend sounds like a very inconsiderate b*tch. I don't honestly know why a man would tolerate such nonsense. How old are you?

[Mish]

I was like WTF, i was getting upset , not the fact that she went out , just the simple fact that , she couldnt give me a simple call to see how i was doing, losing a friend sucks , but what yall think should i let it go ??maybe i was under alot of stress but i need someones opinion ....thanx

That's a very inconsiderate behaviour. Or perhaps absent minded. How long have you two been together?

[Petit Papillon]

IMHO she doesn't love You

[eh26]

26....she is 24 we only been together for 11 months , and thats why i aint talking to her at the moment , honestly i thought it was disrespectful, I been done wrong in the past so right away I backed away from her , but still she was tryn to make it seem some how it was my fault ??

[eh26]

IMHO she doesn't love You

obviously but still u can be respectful...it trough me off

[Petit Papillon]

obviously but still u can be respectful...it trough me off

I didn't want to be disrespectfull,but it's quite realistic what I think.Someone who just like You would treat You more gentle than she . She was like "Your friend died?So what?" I think that was more mean than that what I have told You.

[Gigabitch]

Maybe she can't handle death or loss. This is a big red flag. She's unreliable, and it's good that you found that out early on.

[lesa]

I agree. It's good that you got to see early in the relatiohship how she handles negative things and situations that does not go her way.

[eh26]

I didn't want to be disrespectfull,but it's quite realistic what I think.Someone who just like You would treat You more gentle than she . She was like "Your friend died?So what?" I think that was more mean than that what I have told You.

hu...??? wait im not talking about what u said lol , im saying her being disrepectful ...not you haha

[Petit Papillon]

haha ok I'm giving back Your honour