Just married, need advice

[vashti]

Prolonged erection greater than 4 hours and priapism (painful erections greater than 6 hours in duration) have been reported infrequently since market approval of Viagra. If priapism is not treated immediately, penile tissue damage and permanent loss of potency could result.

I'm getting tired of debating this Vash. I did agree with you on a middle ground a couple of posts back. That theoretically this could work out so long as the woman doesn't complain and whinge about it, doesn't start new problems in the marriage and understands her partner's problem. I still think though that not knowing what the sexual chemistry will be like before going into marriage is too much of a risk to take.

The effects of Viagra only last 4 hours maximum, so erections lasting longer than that would indeed be rare, and probably a side effect of mixing medications.

I didn't see you agree to any middle ground at all; you are holding steady to the same opinion and trying to minimize any solution that involves the male actually attempting to fix his problem.

[Mish]

The effects of Viagra only last 4 hours maximum, so erections lasting longer than that would indeed be rare, and probably a side effect of mixing medications.

It wasn't in the mixing medication side effects section. It was reported as directly caused by Viagra. Infertility a big risk to take, even though it's reported as infrequent.

I didn't see you agree to any middle ground at all; you are holding steady to the same opinion and trying to minimize any solution that involves the male actually attempting to fix his problem.

You can't "fix" low sex drive Vash. The middle ground I recommended is both parties negotiate and "complaint free" find an acceptable schedule that works for both. I recommended for the woman to accept her partner's low sex drive issue (if such is the case) in light of her mistake for not finding this out sooner.

What's your solution?


I have to go, I'll revisit this thread later...

[vashti]

What's your solution?

I'm too bored with this thread to go over it again.