I hope this post comes out accurate b/c I'm drunk right now, but it's true lilwing. In the city (at least what I've found) most of the dealing is low level. Why? Because marijuana growing operations do not occur in the city, meth labs are rural or in Mexico, ecstasy and other drug labs are in the suburbs, Netherlands or Thailand...
I really don't care how good it feels, it would just creep me out if a girl stuck her finger up there. You saw how I freaked out after anal sex with Kristin. I just think the anus should be left alone to perform its primary purpose: shitting.
It's not just the germ thing. I think having a girl stick her finger up my rear would make me feel emasculated. Like I was being fingered. It's one area I'm happy to leave left unchartered.
And Dharmic - fifty percent?! you're kidding yourself. Absolutely off the planet.
Dharmic, here's another one: are people at all penalised in the gay community for overly promiscous behaviour? Or is it just no holes barred (no pun intended hahaha)
Stop it DL. You aren't living up to your SN, you know.
Even if DM *was* 'down low' (which he isn't b/c he is a freaking god in bed, I know) it would be his thing to sort out, right?
PS, your SN & down low both form DL for short. Coincidence? I think not...
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh
I could honestly support the idea that more than 10% of the male population was gay, because those polls aren't accounting for those on the 'down-low' or those who are homosexual and struggling with it (not on the down low, but are gay and in denial....like the ones trying to use Jesus to save them from their sinful urges lol).
Actually, I just had to add that I have a friend on the DL, he just doesn't know I know. We've suspected for years, that him and his best friend who is openly gay had something going. They live together. I just confirmed the actual relationship not too long ago. He's had gf's and stuff.....but if his parents ever knew, they would probably kill him. For real.
To me, homophobia and aggression towards gay people are indicators that you may in fact be gay yourself (I read a study on this once, and found it quite humorous). I'm not gay myself, but the concept of lesbianism doesn't disgust me....I just prefer outties to innies. Whatever. People need to chill out.
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Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever. - Mohandas Gandhi
Most people that are gay, are born into it, some don't notice it until
later in life, but when they find their mate, they seem happier.
It's just a natural thing to marry opposite sexes, but no one
should judge someone's happiness, because we don't
understand them, just accept it and move on with your life.
" Nothing is a waste of time, if you use the experience wisely."
=> Auguste Rodin
Yeah, and then every time you saw her lick her fingers, after a nice big finger-lickin' meal...
Come on now, just because he is bothered by it does not make him gay. It's perfectly understandable, since the statistics are so surprising. Besides, who gives a **** if someone is gay? I think the part about betraying one's wife and cheating on her is the horrible part about that.
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