can you tell if your guys cheating?

[anachronistic]

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you have obviously never been cheated on lilwang.

Every girl I have ever been with has cheated on me.

[1averagejoe]

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you have obviously never been cheated on lilwang.

I think it's different for women. My ex cheated on her first boyfriend, the one after that, and then me. So I think she's just nuts and not well. As with most women at that age that I think just seek emotional attachment and love from wherever they can get it.

As for men cheating...I think most men cheat because of the sex. Simple as that. They just want to have their meat beat by an assortment of women.

Of course these are all generalizations based off of my personal observations.

As for telling if your guy is cheating on you. Well most of it will be if you notice any changes in his attitude, personality, or anything for that matter that he's stopped doing or is doing differently can be signs.

[bluesummer]

No, sweetie, that intuition mess is not always right, and its not just women who have access to this intuition you speak of, its actually called human intuition. Pretty much, however, some women get this hunch that there man is cheating, and in fact he's not. If you are accusing your man of cheating, hun, then that entails that you may be insecure. You dont know what you have, or why that man loves you. Alot of women mess up when they dont trust their men. To a secure man, distrust is a huge turn-off.

Yes, while for some people it is a sign of insecurity, it isn't always. My ex cheated on me a few times and I'd know every single time....his behaviour was a screaming indicator, even though he thought he was being so slick about it. As soon as I saw that behaviour being displayed, THEN I would covertly collect my proof. I was never wrong, once.

Just remember, if he is cheating, he is cheating for a reason.

Yes, he's cheating because he's a slimy, disloyal bastard. Whatever the reason, it's still not excusable.

[SallyMar]

I've been cheated on.. and the best advice I can give is: don't let him think he can get away with it.

[tryingtoforget]

I always do.
Of course in the past, I always find ways to convince myself otherwise...because we believe what we want to believe.
But if you suspect something, you're probably right.

[bluesummer]

I've been cheated on.. and the best advice I can give is: don't let him think he can get away with it.

Better advice: dump him and don't take him back, ever. Taking him back automatically gives him the go ahead to do it again, because you were sucker enough to give him another chance already.

[Gigabitch]

Just remember, if he is cheating, he is cheating for a reason.

Some possible reasons:

1) He's an asshole.
2) He knows he doesn't deserve you and he hates you for it.
3) He was raised by wolves. Cheating wolves.
4) He has no self-respect.
5) He has a deathwish.

Yup. There's always a reason.