If you hang out with your gf every weekend, do you call her everyday during the weekdays?
If you hang out with your gf every weekend, do you call her everyday during the weekdays?
It depends on how long I've been going out with her AND more importantly, how much I like her.
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I don't. I like to have my space and I like her to have her own space too.
Careful with obssessive guys and girls out there.
i see my bf everyday, and he still calls me before i go to sleep, everyday.
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It really depends on so many things..
If the relationship is at a certain level where it's not creepy.. and it's both what she wants, and what I want to do.. then yes.. I don't see a reason to not call her everyday just to say "hi".. or see how her day was.. keep her posted on my day.. wish her a good night..
If the relationship is at that level.. I don't think it's too big of a deal to give the other person a small token gesture to show them that you care.. But again.. that just depends on BOTH people, at what level the relationship is..
If the girl doesn't want it.. you end up with what seems like a clingy/desperate/creepy guy..
If the guy doesn't want to do it.. you end up with what seems like a needy/desperate/insecure girl..
It all depends on where they both feel the relationship is..
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Yes, me and my SO talk every day. We text every now and then through the day and I call her every night before she goes to sleep.
My bf and I talk every day, usually more than once. I don't consider it weird, because he calls me just as much as I call him.
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If I had a girlfriend I would probably only call her or hang out with her 3 times a week. I also like my space, and not only that, I am just really super busy, and any more time than that I just do not have.
I guess it really just depends on how serious the relationship is. For the casual romance, a few times a week is fine... but for the really serious relationships, I like once a day, even if only for 30 minutes total.
I guess it really depends on the person then.
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Meh.
I see my girlfriend when I want to during the week, and I sometimes e-mail her at work, since we work for the same company, but other than that, generally no.
If I want to talk to her, I go over there.
My bf and I live together now, and he still calls me.
Spammer Spanker
i hate dependent people who can't get enough of their significant other. it makes them seem so weak and scared of being alone.
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...this is just my perspective on the situation...
I don't see my girlfriend until after work.
I used to kiss her goodbye every morning, but now we live in two separate rooms, and her door is a bitch to get open without waking everybody up (wood floors, empty space = echo), so I don't bother with that anymore.