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    girlfriend material

    what do you think are the qualities of a lady to be a girlfriend material?does she needs to be drop dead gorgeous,smart,etc..

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    She needs to keep the weight off. And... well, that's about it.

    Oh. And she's got to be willing to spread her legs.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Gribble View Post
    She needs to keep the weight off. And... well, that's about it.

    Oh. And she's got to be willing to spread her legs.
    lol...party girl?

    just use your common sense. guys would like a perfect girl but most know that isn't going to happen. looks never hurt but aren't that important as long as she's not ugly, good personality, someone they can trust, and love equally. but really, there's no definition to "girlfriend material," it depends on the person. everyone is different.

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    Quote Originally Posted by spongebob6286 View Post
    what do you think are the qualities of a lady to be a girlfriend material?does she needs to be drop dead gorgeous,smart,etc..
    Someone who is attractive (to the guy) and treats him well. Those are the main qualities really.
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    Quote Originally Posted by spongebob6286 View Post
    what do you think are the qualities of a lady to be a girlfriend material?does she needs to be drop dead gorgeous,smart,etc..
    The first thing she has to be, is absolutely natural, just herself, not at all fake, no act, just being her natural self, just the way she is.. completely comfortable with herself and the way she is.. who she is..

    Then, very good-looking, takes care of herself, maintains her body, hair, skin, teeth, health.. dresses well.. has to have great taste in everything.. assertive, focused, driven, passionate, energetic, determined, honest, feminine, girly, happy, smiles often, expressive, sensual, playful, fun, funny, loves to laugh, affectionate, comfortable with her sexuality, mature, childish, loving, thoughtful, supportive, motivating, submissive, creative, open-minded, free-spirited, goal-oriented, realistic, grounded, logical, intelligent, interesting, curious, sophistocated, classy, sexy, tender, gentle, wild, flirty, in touch with her emotions and feelings, must love the arts (art, film, dancing, music, writing), must love cultures and traveling, adventurous, confident, secure, relaxed, educated, well-spoken, warm, lively, would make a great mother and wife one day, understanding, considerate, sensitive, respectful, appreciative, caring, romantic, but too modest to know that she's that perfect.. yet confident enough to look you in the eyes and know she's the woman of your dreams..
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    Quote Originally Posted by 1averagejoe View Post
    looks never hurt but aren't that important as long as she's not ugly,
    Of course they are not important. As long as she is not ugly. LOL

    Quote Originally Posted by Gribble View Post
    She needs to keep the weight off.
    Yes....I agree....strongly.
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    I can say that I'm not ugly b/c when I was in my teenage years,there were boys who had a crush on me,who would usually texted/call me,wrote me a letter,etc. but just saying they liked me but would not dare to court me.. I'm afraid I would end up like my aunt whose now old & still single.

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    Quote Originally Posted by spongebob6286 View Post
    I'm afraid I would end up like my aunt whose now old & still single.
    What's so bad about that?
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    Quote Originally Posted by spongebob6286 View Post
    I'm afraid I would end up like my aunt whose now old & still single.
    If your primary motivation is to avoid being single, you are going to attract crappy men. It's no crime to be single... many people prefer it, in fact.

    Although I am married, I'd rather be single than be stuck with some of the guys my friends married. "Till death do you part" can be a really long time if you choose poorly.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    Quote Originally Posted by spongebob6286 View Post
    I can say that I'm not ugly...
    Post a pic of yourself. I'm curious.
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    She needs to be drop dead gorgeous, smart, etc...

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    Quote Originally Posted by spongebob6286 View Post
    I can say that I'm not ugly b/c when I was in my teenage years,there were boys who had a crush on me,who would usually texted/call me,wrote me a letter,etc. but just saying they liked me but would not dare to court me.. I'm afraid I would end up like my aunt whose now old & still single.
    Where are you from, what is your age and how do you look like?
    Don't expect anything.

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    as long as she doesnt look like a dead drowned goat I'm happy -she needs to have an equal or greater level of intelligence though- I think thats where my last two relationships went wrong .lol
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    pretty, smart, supportive, intimate. The perfect girl.

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