I Broke Up With My GF

[NeoSeminole]

we dated for 3 months. Please cheer me up LF :-(

[Mish]

Walk into a club and take your shirt off, you should get a few instant replacements

Instant cheer up in times of heartache!

[vashti]

I'm sorry, neo.

What happened?

[lastwish]

o man...neo....ur not the only heartbroken one...lets just be heartbroken together.

[Only-virgins]

Shut up bastards, at least you people have/had relationships to break apart in the first place.

[lastwish]

Shut up bastards, at least you people have/had relationships to break apart in the first place.

haha....omagosh...i feel so much better now.

[NeoSeminole]

vashti, we aren't compatible with each other. Our breakup was a mutual decision.

lastwish, sounds good to me.

[misombra]

sorry neo.

something must have happened. just please tell us what it is...

[Mish]

Compatibility is a biggy. If you're not compatible now after 3 months, imagine how incompatible you will be later on. Her being incompatible with family and friends especially (If there was such) is an instant deal breaker I reckon.

A mutual decision is a good step forward. It means both of you are aware this will not work out and are ready to move on. It's better to be single all your life than be stuck with the wrong person forever.

[NeoSeminole]

misombra, we don't share any of the same interests. It was frustrating at times planning an activity to do. She's also 6 yrs older than me (she's 29 and I'm 23). It was like she expected me to know certain things that I had no idea about.

[misombra]

wow. i'm that age as well and i couldn't see myself dating someone that young.

you must look older than you are or something...

[misombra]

wait, i guess i'm supposed to be cheering you up.

don't worry neo. you're still young and somebody more suited for you will come along.

[Sami09]

i am not sure what happened what happened? you are young you will meet a beautiful woman what day that you will fall in love with.

[vashti]

Just one more stepping stone to get you to where you are supposed to be...

I guess in the meantime, you've gained some experience, at least.

Still, it sucks, doesn't it?

[GrkScorp]

Please cheer me up LF :-(

Well.. Neo, you said it yourself, it was mutual.. and the two of you were not compatible..

Honestly, I've said it before, and I'll say it again, you're a great-looking guy; and not just your body, a couple of girls have sneaked a couple of glances at your pictures, all of them said your face is your most attractive feature, it's very manly, and I agree..

But you also dress well, and tastefully.. and from the color matching and style you have, it's easy to infer plenty of masculine character traits about you that women would love..

As for your personality.. looking at your ex, and the fact that you're on here, and looking to get cheered up.. You're not some knuckle-head, clueless, emotionless, numb guy.. You're sensitive, and understanding, and very considerate.. which would explain the urge you get to take care of others around you and make those you love (friends and gf) very happy..

And with qualities like that Neo, you'll definitely have no trouble finding someone great.. and they'll be extreamely lucky to be a part of your life.. If you were in NY, maybe we'd go out this weekend.. but hey, you can try the Blue Martini in Tampa..

Also, you need someone slightly less serious, more grounded and understanding of what's important to you, a little more open-minded and liberal, and dare I say it.. fun, wild, more lively and passionate..., I don't want to get too deep and personal.. but i'm guessing that was a major issue on your part in terms of what your gf was lacking.. cause of you not being so happy with things..

Enough cold-reading..

Post-break-up.. same old, same old.. you start to wonder if you did the right thing, if it was the wrong thing to do.. but at the same time, you get a sense of feeling free.. liberated, from what seems like a life sentence in prison with the wrong person.. as if that frustration is lifted and gone.. like you can breathe fully and completely now, totally stress-free.. it feels great.. amazing.. and that's when you start to wonder.. and question.. if you'll find someone else.. how you'll find someone else.. where to start looking.. and to that.. all I have to say is.. give yourself some time before you start seeing new women.. take a couple of weeks and just make some time for yourself.. enjoy that time.. that's when you'll start to really realize things on your own.. what's really important to you.. what went wrong, how to look out for it in the future, and what you're really looking for in someone now..

e-pat-on-back

Best,

GrkScorp