my first time was 9 yrs ago ... i was 15 ... i just did it because i was curious ... my gf at the time was 18 and she was a virgin too ... she was moving to santa cruz (which seemed hella far at the time... i didnt even drive or nuthin yet) for college ... so we figured what better way to part than doing that? I think my first time really sucked ... i was hella curious, but nervous ... i think i really sucked at it too ... but later on, it was all good ...
as far as who has better orgasms ... women get multiples ... i wish i could ... but once im spent, im spent ...