She'll break up with me if I don't f*ck her.

**misombra** · 22-02-08, 11:42 AM

[ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3EbsioB2ca4&feature=related"]YouTube - ****ing you tonight[/ame]

**Gigabitch** · 22-02-08, 11:44 AM

[ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3oRsr7FL0cw"]YouTube - Tenacious D - "**** Her Gently"(Live) 11/18/2006[/ame]

**misombra** · 22-02-08, 11:48 AM

[ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=glhdcJ7K3XM"]YouTube - Isley Brothers - Between The Sheets[/ame]

**Illusional** · 22-02-08, 12:48 PM

has this turned into the video gallery thread??

raverboy

**Junket** · 22-02-08, 01:09 PM

Nevermind.

That was a big misunderstanding.

She's not ready for sex for the same reasons I'm not.

I'll explain it later.

**1averagejoe** · 22-02-08, 01:19 PM

One she'll probably like, especially if you sing/play it especially for her:
[ame="http://youtube.com/watch?v=oJNE31Ndme0"]YouTube - john mayer - your body is a wonderland[/ame]

I know how you kind of feel man, I never went past oral with my ex, even though she never pressured me into going further. Kind of happy I didn't cause she ended up cheating on me. I'm still a virgin, I can completely understand how you feel. I know when I'll be ready though, so don't rush yourself. Try talking with her and tell her you don't feel quite ready at the moment that you love her and you want to make her happy in every way that you just need time.

I've got it all planned out how I'm giving my virginity to the girl. My dad gave me the whole sex talk when I first started going out with my first girlfriend. He also gave me a box of condoms. I wrote on the back of the box and dated it "My virginity"...when the time is right I'm going to give it to that special girl. I just thought that would be one of those cute things that, that one special girl would kinda smile about.

**DoesntMatter** · 22-02-08, 01:24 PM

Originally Posted by 1averagejoe

I've got it all planned out how I'm giving my virginity to the girl. My dad gave me the whole sex talk when I first started going out with my first girlfriend. He also gave me a box of condoms. I wrote on the back of the box and dated it "My virginity"...when the time is right I'm going to give it to that special girl. I just thought that would be one of those cute things that, that one special girl would kinda smile about.

I hate to be an asshole, but to break the truth to you girls are far more practical than guys give them credit for. They want one who can fuuck well, endo story.

But back to you Fras, I heard guys who start late end up with more problems. You don't want that to be you

**1averagejoe** · 22-02-08, 01:26 PM

Originally Posted by DoesntMatter

I hate to be an asshole, but to break the truth to you girls are far more practical than guys give them credit for. They want one who can fuuck well, endo story.

But back to you Fras, I heard guys who start late end up with more problems. You don't want that to be you

Well I'm still young...lol

Plus it's my choice what I do with it. There's plenty of women out there that can respect my decision.

**Junket** · 22-02-08, 01:27 PM

Originally Posted by DoesntMatter

But back to you Fras, I heard guys who start late end up with more problems. You don't want that to be you

What the hell are you talking about?

Just to clarify as well, I'm relieved as hell right now, don't you f*cking dare try to persuade me our choice to abstain from intercourse is a bad one.

I starved the monster the first time so that I wouldn't project that aggression towards Amy.

I have no reason not to feed it this time.

**DoesntMatter** · 22-02-08, 01:39 PM

Originally Posted by Frasbee

What the hell are you talking about?

I've read that guys who start having sex after age X have more trouble with sex things

But I completely respect your decision

**1averagejoe** · 22-02-08, 01:40 PM

Originally Posted by Frasbee

What the hell are you talking about?

Just to clarify as well, I'm relieved as hell right now, don't you f*cking dare try to persuade me our choice to abstain from intercourse is a bad one.

I starved the monster the first time so that I wouldn't project that aggression towards Amy.

I have no reason not to feed it this time.

I honestly can respect you for taking the responsibility to actually think about this decision. It's yours and no one else's. Others may say that it's selfish of you to not do it with her, but I honestly think she should respect your decision. I see it as a gift. You don't demand them at Christmas, and if you do you're selfish. As for overreacting you are a bit about the pregnancy thing. Get the pill or something similar. But in your case you do seem fairly mature for your age, I wouldn't say don't screw her but definitely think about it. You're getting older and you may regret not doing so it in the future.

anachronistic · 22-02-08, 01:40 PM

Originally Posted by Frasbee

Nevermind.

That was a big misunderstanding.

She's not ready for sex for the same reasons I'm not.

I'll explain it later.

I'm glad you got things straightened out for now.... looking forward to the explanation!

**Junket** · 22-02-08, 01:45 PM

Originally Posted by 1averagejoe

It's yours and no one else's. Others may say that it's selfish of you to not do it with her, but I honestly think she should respect your decision. I wouldn't say don't screw her but definitely think about it. You're getting older and you may regret not doing so it in the future.

Did you miss the part where I said she told me she's not ready? This entire thread is a waste, that entire debacle of a conversation was absolutely void.

Shut up and listen.

Christ.

**1averagejoe** · 22-02-08, 01:51 PM

Originally Posted by Frasbee

Did you miss the part where I said she told me she's not ready? This entire thread is a waste, that entire debacle of a conversation was absolutely void.

Shut up and listen.

Christ.

doh...*hand to forehead*. sorry

I'm tired...I've been studying pretty much all day.

**GrkScorp** · 22-02-08, 05:17 PM

Originally Posted by Frasbee

And yeah, Scorp, don't try to persuade me into shit. This thread was probably a mistake, I can already feel the itch of defiance and resentment creeping up on me again. So don't patronize me. It feeds something I don't like to feed.

Persuade you? Patronize you?

You realize, I didn't bother to get into the reasons why you may be feeling this negative attitude towards sex.. THAT would be me trying to break down your inner limiting beliefs (for example; pride some men take in resisting sex with women or their own sexual urges in front of their partners because they view it as weakness).. THAT would be me trying to persuade you.. what I did was simply tell you what your GF has been trying to tell you.. and what you already know for yourself.. that from her POV, she's suffering.. sure, some people may laugh at it and think it's funny.. but it's not.. not to her.. and I KNOW, not to you either..

Sex is symbolic.. even though you may or may not enjoy it as much as other things you do.. it just validates the love and affection you both share with eachother.. We live in a fantasy culture of casual sex.. but the reality is that sex is (not being cliche') still something exclusive and special between two people.. it's a powerful bonding tool.. I'm sure you may already be sexually satisfying her (oral sex).. but it's a completely different sensation to have sex with someone you're in love with.. I think THAT's her cry out to you, more than just the physical (only) aspect of sex..

But if you were looking for something to pick at.. here:

- Tomato Plant

Confused? Just think about the tomato plant..

(Get out of my head Charles!)

I'm just messing with you Fras (that's from the X-men, btw.. the OLD cartoon x-men.. good times).. Anyway.. back to never-ending 1040s ugh!

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