Porn Star

[marlasinger]

Last night I was with my boyfriend and my roommate and we were making dinner when my roommate and I started talking about this girl we used to know who is a porn star now. I mentioned her name because it's a pretty uncommon name and my boyfriend was like "Wait, where is she from? What was the name of her porn film?" and I was like "She's from around here and I think the name of it is..." and he goes, "yeah, i've seen her in that"
And that kind of pissed me off. I think my insecurity got the best of me and I was upset the rest of the night. I didn't tell him I was upset because of that. Do you men consider what he said something appropriate to tell me? I know I'm a little crazy but I think there's a line and he totally skipped across it

[BillyGalbreath]

Why do women get pissed when guys mention they watch porn? Seriously. Porn is porn. It's not cheating. It's nothing to get angry or upset about. The fact that ya'll used to know her personally doesn't matter. Is he sleeping with her? No. He (along with thousands of other guys) watched her on in a movie getting her brains ****ed out by some steroid lovin' long schlong. Nothin' wrong with that.

[92135011]

but perhaps tell him anyways and discuss...i find that little things like this, when built up just leads to problems later on.

[Charlie Boy II]

He definitely should have just kept his trap shut. Most guys watch porn but most guys also have the common sense to pretend they don't to their girlfriends. I can actually understand why a girl wouldn't like her boyfriend watching other chicks get ****ed. And I don't think too much of the stuff is healthy for a guy's brain either.

[Charlie Boy II]

Also, ah, who's the porn star?

[BillyGalbreath]

He definitely should have just kept his trap shut.

That would be called lying.

Most guys watch porn but most guys also have the common sense to pretend they don't to their girlfriends.

Again. Lying. If you can't be open with your partner and tell them everything, then it's not a real relationship and it wont last.

I can actually understand why a girl wouldn't like her boyfriend watching other chicks get ****ed.

Girl's do it too. They watch porn. They see people in public thinking "yummy!" and undress them with their eyes... It's normal human nature.

And I don't think too much of the stuff is healthy for a guy's brain either.

Porn is not unhealthy. In fact, I would say it is very healthy. Porn is what keeps married men from cheating. It's porn for a reason. Pure fantasy to satisfy that area of human instincts for both men and women. To deny and/or defy it is going against mother nature herself.

Bottom line. There are two types of people. Those who masturbate, and those who lie.

[DoesntMatter]

Damn, I wish I knew a pornstar

[SunRiSer]

He definitely should have just kept his trap shut. Most guys watch porn but most guys also have the common sense to pretend they don't to their girlfriends. I can actually understand why a girl wouldn't like her boyfriend watching other chicks get ****ed. And I don't think too much of the stuff is healthy for a guy's brain either.

/Agree



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[Charlie Boy II]

Mate if a bloke watches too much porn it'll mess with his sexual wiring. Too much of it definitely isn't healthy

[TheSphinx]

Porn is not unhealthy. In fact, I would say it is very healthy. Porn is what keeps married men from cheating. It's porn for a reason. Pure fantasy to satisfy that area of human instincts for both men and women. To deny and/or defy it is going against mother nature herself.

I think this really depends on the man.

Following what CharlieBoy stated, I know quite a few fellows who have really distorted views of what a woman should look like and how she should perform in the bedroom as a result of a steady diet of pornography.

I can't see how limiting porn is going against mother nature either, as I have yet to see a pair of breasts in such entertainment that do not deny and/or defy her.

~Sphinx

[Illusional]

you're overreacting. so what if he knows a porn star from his youth. i'm sure that you're seen other men naked besides your current bf. nudity is all over the internet and entertainment business so deal with it.

raverboy

[Only-virgins]

Mate if a bloke watches too much porn it'll mess with his sexual wiring.

Evidence or STFU.

[Charlie Boy II]

what? .

[vashti]

Of course charlieboy is right. Surely you guys have seen the threads around here about the guys that would rather watch porn than have sex with their girlfriends. And billyboy? Porn doesn't keep a man from cheating.

Marla - you boyfriend is not the brightest bulb in the box, but yes, you are overreacting. Just tell him to stop being such an idiot.

[DoesntMatter]

Surely you guys have seen the threads around here about the guys that would rather watch porn than have sex with their girlfriends.

These people need to have their heads examined

That nearly pisses me off