sex with an older guy

[bloodtippedrose]

What is your point? I still find it annoying. They can be different but that doesn't mean I have to accept them if they are different then mine.

beautiful. lol
youre so blunt with your opinions. how can people not love you
except for when your opinion varies from their own..

[Only-virgins]

I think a lot can be learned from an older man. They are better in bed.

Bahahahaha yea right.

[bloodtippedrose]

Better in bed, debatable. Some guys learn from each woman they sleep with and perfect new techniques, but younger men have the energy to keep going and going. Men actually hit their sexual peak in there 20s while woman dont until their late 40s. Crazy.

[Only-virgins]

beautiful. lol
youre so blunt with your opinions. how can people not love you
except for when your opinion varies from their own..

Right, so I should just accept all the bullshat that a girl has done in her past even though they may bother me and not go with my ethics simply because those are her ethics and she was experimenting right? ....or I could leave....that sounds a lot more favorable...probably for the both of us. I hate how women think in emotions first.....Logic pwns emotions.

Better in bed, debatable. Some guys learn from each woman they sleep with and perfect new techniques, but younger men have the energy to keep going and going. Men actually hit their sexual peak in there 20s while woman dont until their late 40s. Crazy.

True and I don't mind, time to look up Kylie Minogue...she is like 40 and still smoking hot!

[bloodtippedrose]

Right, so I should just accept all the bullshat that a girl has done in her past even though they may bother me and not go with my ethics simply because those are her ethics and she was experimenting right? ....or I could leave....that sounds a lot more favorable...probably for the both of us. I hate how women think in emotions first.....Logic pwns emotions.

Woah tiger I was not saying my opinion varies from yours I was saying when opinions vary in general.
This particular case im on the same page as you.
If a girl strikes a bad chord with you when shes talking about her past next her ass. there are so many hot chicks out there and some of them are even smart

[Only-virgins]

Woah tiger I was not saying my opinion varies from yours I was saying when opinions vary in general.
This particular case im on the same page as you.
If a girl strikes a bad chord with you when shes talking about her past next her ass. there are so many hot chicks out there and some of them are even smart

That was my original point.

[vashti]

Better in bed, debatable. Some guys learn from each woman they sleep with and perfect new techniques, but younger men have the energy to keep going and going. Men actually hit their sexual peak in there 20s while woman dont until their late 40s. Crazy.

Energy does not equal skill. Ask any of us who are older (indi, giga, myself)... older men ARE better in bed. They last longer and care more about their partner's needs. (Obviously, I am speaking in generalities.) It's a matter of quality over quantity.

[all time low]

seems abit to much.

[Only-virgins]

They last longer and care more about their partner's needs.

That is because they don't have any of their own anymore.

[bloodtippedrose]

ouch.

honestly everyones great in bed to me
I dont care if it lasts long or the positions change, im just happy im gettin some

[Only-virgins]

everyones great in bed to me
I dont care if it lasts long or the positions change, im just happy im gettin some

You have been with everyone? What is this? Why am I left out?! OH, I see how it is going to be...fine

[bloodtippedrose]

You have been with everyone? What is this? Why am I left out?! OH, I see how it is going to be...fine

correction.. ive only slept with two guys in my entire life. And while I prefer one over the other I had a great time everytime

[moonlight]

Energy does not equal skill. Ask any of us who are older (indi, giga, myself)... older men ARE better in bed. They last longer and care more about their partner's needs. (Obviously, I am speaking in generalities.) It's a matter of quality over quantity.

This is true. Younger men tend to find this idea threatening though...they find it terribly hard to accept that experience and skill really does eclipse a rock hard bod and energy to simply bang away.

[Only-virgins]

This is true. Younger men tend to find this idea threatening though...they find it terribly hard to accept that experience and skill really does eclipse a rock hard bod and energy to simply bang away.

Thats not it, it is the fact that you assume that all younger men don't have any skill. You shouldn't assume anything like that until you have slept with a lot of young men...or correction.....just me.

[IndiReloaded]

Thats not it, it is the fact that you assume that all younger men don't have any skill. You shouldn't assume anything like that until you have slept with a lot of young men...or correction.....just me.

I suspect that's because you've probably taken the time to actually learn from the resources that are out there. There are some young guys out there who aren't afraid to take books out of the library and learn about how to please their partners. A good idea, btw, to anyone who hasn't done this yet.

OV, I think you're barking up the wrong tree about young women & sexual experience, BTW. Instead of berating them, why don't you try to sell them on the idea of developing good longterm relationship skills? Get them to invest in the benefits of a strong, stable relationship for 20 years or so? Then, once the kids are grown (or someone dies, or whatever) the woman can then go & sow her wild oats.

I know its a reversal of the norm, but whyever not? At that age (40s, 50s) a mature woman need not remarry or even get that heavily invested in an LTR. If she worked hard earlier, she'd be wealthy, intelligent, experienced, educated... why should she need ANOTHER permanent partner to feel self-fulfilled? But she couldn't be considered a 'useless whore' by any means, could she, having already invested a couple decades in a career, husband, raising children, etc.

Just an alternative viewpoint to think about.