Wow...confused

[repeat]

k i liked this girl i've known her for awhile and i told her i like her and she said shes busy with her career and she just wants to be friends. I dont get it we ge along great and stuff and i really thought she liked me but i guess not? Guys i'm so confused and i really hurt inside i dont know what to do.

[DoesntMatter]

She just doesn't like you as much as you like her

[Mathias]

k i liked this girl i've known her for awhile and i told her i like her and she said shes busy with her career and she just wants to be friends. I dont get it we ge along great and stuff and i really thought she liked me but i guess not? Guys i'm so confused and i really hurt inside i dont know what to do.

It happens.

[Stresscity]

I don't think that you should take it as if she doesn't like you at all. She just might want to get her career in place before she starts looking into a relationship. You shouldn't read too far into her saying she wants to be friends right now. Some people are just that way.

[okapa]

Sorry mate but don't get fooled, she doesn't like you, you should move on.

It was a good excuse but she should have been more explicit.

Good luck : )

[nuevo]

It could be: Wrong time, wrong place, wrong girl....who knows

[Gigabitch]

She was polite about rejecting you. Now you have to be polite about accepting it. It's not gonna happen.

[Aidan]

I feel your pain, but I fear you're flogging a dead horse. Like the others said, she just let you down gently, as she's your friend.

I once did something similar but she didn't have a career to use against me! We are still friends though, having traversed an "awkward phase"

Besides, if she really is a career woman, chances are that she'd try and wear the britches (I'm a 50:50 man, before any feminists get enraged!). Maybe you can count yourself lucky at your narrow escape.

[repeat]

majority of my girl friends are telling me if she was interested she would be with u regardless if she is busy or not. Some are saying maybe she is actually really busy with school right now and cant handle a relationship. I've known her since high school and i remember she told me she liked me...i liked her a bit too but at that time i was going out with someone else and i told her i just wanted to be friends. ARGH I HATE THIS!!! Guys i really dont know what to believe...

[TheSphinx]

majority of my girl friends are telling me if she was interested she would be with u regardless if she is busy or not.

This is spot on in my experience. Pick yourself up and go meet some other girls. She will come around if/when she's ready.

~Sphinx

[StabMyHeart]

Look for another woman there are a lot of nice women outside there and tears, they dry on theyr own...and wounds heal on theyr own too with some time

[Chlorine]

I've known her since high school and i remember she told me she liked me...i liked her a bit too but at that time i was going out with someone else and i told her i just wanted to be friends.

Repeat-------There's your answer. You rejected her once. She will always remember that.

[jakki2903]

most of these posts appear to be a guys perspective..she might be focussing on her career or college etc, for a long time, I just wanted to be on my own and didn't let my barriers down. I was asked out constantly, probably had a date offer at least once a week, but I never went. Maybe she got hurt in the past and needs a long time to get over it, so she is filling her time with career.

Otherwise, I also know that guys who've asked me out that I have rejected have been because I couldn't be bothered going through the motions, rather then if I liked them and my career came first for a long time - I suspect she's doing the same. Chin up, keep busy and act like you don't care anymore. I hold bets that 3 - 6 months down the line she might make an indication that there may be a chance. You know she liked you once, and she could do again....

[repeat]

most of these posts appear to be a guys perspective..she might be focussing on her career or college etc, for a long time, I just wanted to be on my own and didn't let my barriers down. I was asked out constantly, probably had a date offer at least once a week, but I never went. Maybe she got hurt in the past and needs a long time to get over it, so she is filling her time with career.

Otherwise, I also know that guys who've asked me out that I have rejected have been because I couldn't be bothered going through the motions, rather then if I liked them and my career came first for a long time - I suspect she's doing the same. Chin up, keep busy and act like you don't care anymore. I hold bets that 3 - 6 months down the line she might make an indication that there may be a chance. You know she liked you once, and she could do again....

well she has been talking about school a lot and how its been stressing her, shes always been dedicated to her career so i think i'll take your advice and give her some space.

Thanks!