Friend and another friend's ex

[Mish]

Sorry, I'm bored. So I'll post this for some discussion.

One of my friends is looking to score with another friend's recent ex tomorrow. I saw them together today and she was all over him, like a fly on a pudding. She asked him to watch a horror movie with her at her place because she's too "scared". So hes contemplating the opportunity of getting some easy action and blaming any consequence (if it comes out) on her persistence.

Thoughts?

[vashti]

The exboyfriend will only buy that ridiculous excuse if he is a total moron.

[Kiechi]

Your friends a dick.

[TheSphinx]

If he carries through, the rebound guy will likely lose his friend.

Girls like this bore me to tears.

~Sphinx

[Gigabitch]

If he wants the action, he has to blame the consequences on his own dick, not her persistence.

She's an ex. She has nothing to lose. He could lose a friend. Would it really be all that hard for him to find someone else to fool around with?

[Mish]

Would it really be all that hard for him to find someone else to fool around with?

I dunno


What do I do?

[TheSphinx]

I often hear younger guys stating something to the effect of putting "ho's before bro's" when one of the pack decides to place himself in a situation similar to this. When the guy finally realizes that his friend status is jeopardized with the others, he usually backs off.

Let this guy know that you don't respect his choice (if that's how you feel) and that you don't think his friend-the ex, will appreciate it much either.

It's ultimately up to him, but at least he will know your attitude towards it before he commits.

~Sphinx

[misombra]

there's really nothing you can do. your friend is just going to have to live with the consequences of his actions.

[vashti]

All right, mish. Which guy are you in this scenario?

[Mish]

All right, mish. Which guy are you in this scenario?

Vash, why did I know that you were going to say something silly like that?


I'm the guy whose friends with both of these characters


P.S. Thanks for advice everyone. I told him what I think about this yesterday, will see if he still acts on it today.

[Gigabitch]

Then take him out to pick up chicks. Chicks you don't already know and who don't have the lingering scent of your buddy about their pink parts.

[Mish]

Then take him out to pick up chicks. Chicks you don't already know and who don't have the lingering scent of your buddy about their pink parts.

I thought about that, but he doesn't seem to have time for that now. And doing all that work, picking up chicks these days should be considered a manual labour. He's thinking about this cause it's easy, he doesn't need to put any effort in, the offer is already there on the table. It's in the bag if he chooses to.

[Gigabitch]

How freaking lazy are guys these days? Jeeze!

[Mish]

I blame women, for making the game too hard play

But if you do put yourself into guy's shoes, picking up isn't easy. Even if you're the best kinda guy and been playing the game for awhile. It takes effort and time, some people don't have at least one of that.

I can understand where he's coming from, although I don't agree with what he's thinking.

[tooxshort]

nah Mish ... but there's that unwritten code ... don't f*ck with ur friend's ex ... if he's someone that don't got a lot of friends, it's all up to him ...

but if it were me, that $hit'd be all around my town and I'd get into a ton of trouble ... I don't know how the code is in Sydney tho ...