I posted this question somewhere last year, but no one replied, and the problem still remain, so this time I will post it as a new topic. Back to September 2002, I worried about my good friend who told me that she sufferred from depression, but then she just didn't reply to my messages. I wanted to help her, so that is why I contacted her roommate by e-mail. I didn't think it would cause a serious problem, cuz her roommate knew who I was, and her roommate had talked a lot with my guy friend before. Actually her roommate did reply to me about my friend's situation, that she had moved out already... Her roommate even said I am nice in the e-mail.
However, I didn't know my friend's roommate would complain to her about the e-mail. She told my friend that she is upset to receive my e-mail. Of course, my friend is very unhappy about this. She said I've invaded her privacy by asking her roommate about her situation. ( Her roommate promised me that she wouldn't tell her!) I admit I was wrong, but I really didn't mean to invade her privacy. I just worried about her. I really don't know what her roommate told her. Anyway, I apologized to her, and she said apology was accepted. However, after she recovered from the depression, she just doesn't want to hang out with me, and even doesn't want me to contact her! cuz she still feel unhappy about my fault. She said that she had to keep distance from both me and her roommate after this happened...
I really don't know how to bring back the good friendship with her. Is there any way I can let her forgive me? or am I really very wrong? I really don't want to lose the friendship cuz of this incident. I would do everything to save the friendship with her!!! Please give me some suggestions, cuz I've been suffering for this predicament for almost a half year already!!!