does your guy ever tell you his actual feelings?

[LostNotFound]

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[Gigabitch]

Not exactly. I think he expresses his feelings, but how would I really know if they're his true feelings?

[celestialxs]

Not my guy. It seems like the only time he talks about his feelings are right before he's going to tell me he's thinking about breaking up.

Yeah...TWICE now. It hits me like a bomb too because he just holds everything inside, leaving me clueless, until he's so fed up over all the little shit that he's thinking about calling it quits.

Ugh!

[squirrley]

Im not 100% positive, but he does express his feelings IF I initiate the conversation. Kinda egg him on, I know when he's feeling good or not so good.

[miSSleepy]

does he ever actually sit you down and say to you 'honey, i am feeling [this and this] about us and our relationship?

No, and probably about 0.01% of them do it like that. Something has to happen first for me to think he's trying to non-verbally/subconciously tell me something, and then I ask, and then we have a conversation. That's cool, I can deal with that. If I met a guy who actually did the above, I'd have doubts about his heterosexuality.

[Mish]

No, and probably about 0.01% of them do it like that. Something has to happen first for me to think he's trying to non-verbally/subconciously tell me something, and then I ask, and then we have a conversation. That's cool, I can deal with that. If I met a guy who actually did the above, I'd have doubts about his heterosexuality.

+1


Men reveal their feelings, but are not taught to communicate in a girly manner in general. There is some code you need to get through:

Hey babe = You look like and Angel, I am so greatful to be in your life and to be here with you

How are ya, love? = I care so much about you I want to know every single second of your experience, but if you care about my limited attention span please summarise it in a 1 minute sentence or less

"Winks" = You look so stunningly gorgeous I want to do you right here


See Lostnotfound, men can be very emotional, you just need to know how to read them

[LostNotFound]

hmm i see. but i need my guy to tell me he loves me every now and then

[Kiechi]

Tape him saying it and put it on repeat.

[Henry123]

The Bigger question is would you respect him if he were to tell his actual feelings?

[LostNotFound]

^ of course. i like love letters. he wrote me one one time that turned out to be an essay. every now and then i read it and relise how far we have come

[celestialxs]

^ of course. i like love letters. he wrote me one one time that turned out to be an essay. every now and then i read it and relise how far we have come

I agree. That's one of the most meaningful gifts a man can give the woman he loves. One of my exes gave me a book he make of short stories and poems. The very last work in the back was titled "101 Reasons I Love You." He listed the tiniest things, many of which were things only he knew about me. When it got to #101, the reason was "because 101 reasons is never enough." His list went to around 350 reasons, I believe.
THE BEST gift anyone has ever given me to date.

[Mathias]

I agree. That's one of the most meaningful gifts a man can give the woman he loves. One of my exes gave me a book he make of short stories and poems. The very last work in the back was titled "101 Reasons I Love You." He listed the tiniest things, many of which were things only he knew about me. When it got to #101, the reason was "because 101 reasons is never enough." His list went to around 350 reasons, I believe.
THE BEST gift anyone has ever given me to date.

Saving this one in the memory bank. Wow.

[miSSleepy]

hmm i see. but i need my guy to tell me he loves me every now and then

That's a bit different to the question you originally asked. Thing is, there are tons of ways men can tell you they love you, and most of them are not using those 3 words. I find that I need to feel loved through his actions and how he treats me more than I need to hear those words. You can lie easily through those words, but not through actions.

[alidile]

I COULD ONLY WISH... not the ones i want to... every other guy in the world is more feminine and touchy feely than my vagina.

[miSSleepy]

I COULD ONLY WISH... not the ones i want to...

this part went right over my head, but the following part ... I'm going to quote that:

every other guy in the world is more feminine and touchy feely than my vagina.