i want girl opinion...and help...

[Drogba88]

hi,im new here...
this girl started first our lets say friendship...she wanted my number and asked it from my friend...she send me messages on my mobile phone...first she did not admit it was her..and when she did she said that her friend wants to know if i have a girlfriend...after some time we meet...every night we saw each other because we are almost neighbours...and we were all out at the same place...i act like i did not know here for maybe 2-3 weeks...i will now try to tell it short..she was going on holiday to sea...and we didnot even say goodbye...she said that this is hard time for here and time will show whats going to be with us...some time early she said to me that she saw that this is going to last long...when she came from holiday we didnot talked for some time...and then we once talked and she said that it is better that we are friends now(that was mt idea in first place because i didnot want to rush...she once said to me that i dont care if we will be together now or for 2 years..and that that bothers her)we didnot hear for maybe 2 weeks...and then she send me a message..."Friend what are you doing?"...i did not answer 4 weeks and then i sent her that same message...she did not answer...then i sent her after one week "Friend are you angry again on your friend??"...she did not answer until now...what do you think she thinks about this whole thing...what should i do...???
(before she started to send me messages,all the time she was going out at the same time that i was out...and i found out that it was becaues of me..)

[Gigabitch]

I can't believe she still speaks to you. You've been very cold.

[vashti]

He has? I can't even figure out what the heck he said.

[Gigabitch]

He's pretty much blown her off completely since she started chasing him around like Sadie Hawkins.

[Drogba88]

what should i do now...could you explain me gigabitch...how was i cold

[squirrley]

Sounds to me like cat and mouse games here. Just get to the point and quit playing games.

[Drogba88]

what does she thinks now about everything...does she care...and how much...squirrley now i remember once we talk about cat nad mouse ..and she send me that night that she wants to be a mouse... ...i dont know what to do...

[DoesntMatter]

Holy SHIT, even *I* could see that she was into you. You blew it, dumbass

Such a ripe opportunity destroyed.. That was painful to read.

[Drogba88]

why do you think that she was into me...what does she think now...please answer quickly

[squirrley]

IF she wants to be the mouse obviously she's EXPECTING you to chase her ass around! Do you want to be played or be the player? I personally loathe dating games no matter how important they are in the dating ritual. Just get to the point! I guess if you really want something with someone who wants to be doted on then chase her. then pin her down!

[Drogba88]

why is not she answering on messages...what does she thinks now

[squirrley]

ok she's either playing the role of the mouse really well, and or she's just finished. I wouldnt push it too much without looking like youre stalking her. After some time you have to realize its a lost cause.

[Drogba88]

sorry i did not understand the last two sentence...could you explain me in a more detail level...

[squirrley]

Well you are texting her and Im sure alot. Just trying to get ANY response from her. Im saying that the more you do that the more desperate you will look also whether she wants it or not. If after all of that and if after a couple of weeks of texting and she doesnt respond its time to move on.

[Drogba88]

should i try to call her...?when she came from holiday before 3 months i send here after few days message "until when we are going to act like this"(because as i write before we have not even say hello to each other when she came back)she answer me "who si acting like that??"..so i then asked her if she is okay with this kind of act between us?she answer yes and then after less than minute she send "yes,and how should be our relationship...?"i did not answer on that message and then she send "why did you shut up now....?"and after 2 hours she send"okey if you think act like this.."....i miss her but i dont want show to her that because she didnot show enough...