up until meeting my fella D, most of the guys I went with pretty much ejaculated and collapsed. Some went to sleep , some just needed a rest before a come back, but all of them lost their erection for a period of time after ejaculation.
My current fella doesn't loose his erection. Usually he has to cum three times before he goes soft.
I have no particular complaints in this . I was however wondering how common this is, because I have never come across before speaking to my friends.